I need to move on

I'm sorry to hear you went through that, and I can relate on a heavy personal level with the deep-cutting heartbreak. There are tons of coping methods but the only cliche one that works is the trust in time. Time will heal, I promise. Try to also put the time you spent into a perspective of what you learned from the relationship and you'll see just how much you've learned about love and relationships, no matter how much previous experience you have. I promise you'll come out of this with something more than pain and heartbreak.

I always wonder with these ldr's, are you in love with an idea or the person? Emotions are fickle... I mean, all you want is his attention? That's it? Surely it's more complex than that. However, if you felt it was done, it's done. It's easy to fall for an idea, but it's hard to really love a person. I'd say take time to think and let him know your thoughts. If he's receptive and you actually want to go back, do so. If not? Life goes on and there will be more loves to be had for the both of you.

You're still young. There are still mistakes to make and to learn from. Yes people have flaws, no one is perfect in this world. What you need to do is acknowledge the persons flaws and be able to see past that. Also dont focus on what the person has to offer. People change over time once you really get to know them. They could be better and more open or they can be toxic. Dating doesnt mean its the end. You can always move on from a relationship that doesnt work out. Good luck with the next guy. Sorry if it sound a bit spastic but im kind of falling asleep lol

Oh if it was LDR I can tell you from own experience don't do it it's fragile and it misses the best stuff imo. Can't have the 4 hugs a day a human needs to not get depressed with a LDR.

Not necessarily. Make a strong enough bond with someone and you're willing to make important life choices with that person, even if it is LDR. Had a buddy come from Georgia to California just because he fell in love with a girl. He saved up money, bought a car, and drove all the way down here just to be with her. Romantic? Yes! Did it last? For about 3 years. Like I said before, people change.