Things you dont understand

so lets make an open discussion for both guys and girl to get things cleared up that they just dont understand about the other gender. lets help each other out on this

@Momoichi. Why do you think I only hang out with girls and gay\bi men, even though I'm straight. The media has painted a terrible vision of men, and most have attempted to follow that vision. They've turned ruthless, emotionless, and horny as h***. It hurts my pride as a human to even look at most of them. I hate what they've turned themselves into, and if you find a guy that isn't like that KEEP HIM! Don't ever let him go. Because you won't find another for a long, long time. The REAL men stay true to themselves, and there aren't many of us left. BUT another thing. Don't go into every relationship expecting them to cheat on you. Be cautious, but not paranoid. If a guy thinks you don't trust them, it won't make them try harder, they'll just leave. Don't let past experiences block and cloud your ability to see a man for who he really is. There's my advice. Hope it helps.

Machina I don't see how I could have said that better. In my experience it has been the women that cheated. So I think the playing field is even across the board. Is true most people out there are broken or damage in some way. I think that's why the older people sometimes seek out someone younger hoping they aren't tainted with bad experiences. I personally give those who are broken a chance and hope they'll give me a try. However, if they let their past win the battle I usually am forced to step aside. I want to believe in them but the moment that isn't enough it really is out of my hands. In fact people can only change them selves. They should not try to start anything if they don't have their selves together. They only hurt others.

Endless I think we could write a book. It's nice to talk to someone with similar viewpoints after living in Plant City for so long. Most here are the redneck or gangster(swag) type, and are the epitome of what Momoichi is talking about.

@momoichi like machina said it is mostly media spreading crap that makes some think like that. However there is another big factor, it seems (atleast to us guys) that girl go for the jackasses and those are the ones who cheat. there is a whole group of guys who are not like that, in fact most guys. The sad truth is we are overlooked and end up being the people who girls ask why another guy cheated on them.

Animecountryboy Its because a lot of them are stupid T.T

Animecountryboy is right. Now I'm curious, why is it you girls only go for people you know will cheat on you? Is it because of how they look? That's pretty shallow for the gender that keeps saying "looks aren't everything, I want someone to love me for who I am." When in reality, that's what all of us want too. But you jump to the assholes who only want sex.