It hurts

I feel your pain deeply my comrade. Mine literally cheated on me with someone from here the day before our one month. I'm still getting over it. It's not pain that i wanted, but its pain that'll toughen me for the road ahead. I still hate myself cause I feel like I caused it. I've been trying to keep myself from my sanity breaking. Trust me, it's not easy.

Same i had something similar with an old user here. She pretty much treated me the same way. With stuff like ignoring me and getting mad at me for stupid stuff. Telling me how lonely she felt, which made me feel bad cuz like what wad the point of me being there? In the end she messed around with another dude so good riddance i guess XD she didn't get too far im guessing cuz she came back to the site later

Im sorry but thats messed up. I would not want to be someone's secret feeling as if they were ashamed of my existence with her. And no P.D.A.?! Im sorry but I would break down so fast. Thank you for reaching out bro. Im so sorry that happened to you.

Long Distance Relationship more like... Lol Don't R But I don't blame you. It happens. You will eventually be fine and won't repeat the same mistakes. LDR is not impossible or anything but it definitely needs a lot of tought, effort, money and luck.