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phew i wish i knew how to deal with people

reinhardt76
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zah98
Does that not get tiring @Laffantion
reclaw
I don't get these kinds of people, either. I try to spread positivity and be mature about arguments and disagreements. Though I must admit that I don't always walk away quietly. If someone is persistent with their assholery, they can get me pretty mad. Not that I want to be mad, I just can't do anything about it. If I can, I try to cut them out of my life as best as I can.
reclaw
I was bullied in school, too. And I was just like Laff for a few years. But in time I got very relaxed. It's healthier for me and everyone else that way.
acacia12
Of course someone who only feels happiness and sadness is ridiculous. But its very possible there are people who might believe that's all they feel. I'd love to hear how you handle certain situations/conversations/confrontations whenever you have the time. Or better yet. If you could prove me wrong. I believe that every person is a slave to their poisons, and will always do a bad thing if its the only way to get it.
suzi_swan
A part of growing up is learning that the little things you used to get passionately angry about aren't all that getting worked up over. I'm 27, The time for me to be angry about stuff online is over. Just stay strong and let others release that energy. Eventually cooler heads will prevail.
acacia12
Obviously I don't condone the bad things. I'm just not surprised when they happen. Its just a matter of finding out why they did the bad thing.
pana
Some people will dislike you no matter what you do or even say; it can't be helped. From what we talked before you seem fine; don't worry to much about it or over think it.
momoichi
from my experience all you can do is smile and walk away a lot of crazies and just mean angry people in this world, and theres nothing wrong with just apologizing and leaving the situation
reclaw
Or not finding out and just deleting them from your life, Acacia.
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