What are some unique difficulties both sexes handles in dating?

What are some difficulties a woman would typically go through in dating? What are some of those hard times a man has to deal with in the dating game? Not looking for a game of "who has it harder?" Just looking to hear some of the things that both sexes uniquely handle when looking for and being with their partner? GENERALLY https://media1.tenor.com/images/18545d3104b7b6c8ed90c77fe092804c/tenor.gif?itemid=7793484 I know there are exceptions

On a date especially with someone new, the girl quickly becomes a shitter person with no manners, etiquette or independence. Its like a child who wants all the treats. If I'm gonna be your daddy you might as well call me daddy. I've been on real dates with 4 different women and none of them EVER offered to split the cost. Its hard to not feel used.

For man....I guess always having to figure out her 'hints'. I dislike to generalize, but most women are rarely ever direct with you. It's just how it is. This goes for asking-out part too. So girls....if you really really like somebody, but that guy is as dense as a collapsed star. Just....ask him out yourself! Ye ye I know....social unwritten "rules" etc. But think of it this way.... You move on from him because he didn't notice you poking him, and then you just settle for somebody else who actually goes for you. And BIG chances are, you won't be happy with that one. Because you didn't really choose him, he kinda did and you just went along with it because he was "brave". Also, men might actually love compliments even more than you do (probably because we don't receive them as much unless it's a "well done" from our boss at work which ain't exactly most charming thing xD). So if you ask him out yourself, believe me....that's like a confidence boost on steroids. He's gonna value himself a lot more, and if he says yes, he might actually end up being an even better bf for you than you imagined because of that. Alright....but now the other side of the coin. Unlike women, men are straight shooters that just say exactly what's on their mind and you always know what they want if you just simply ask. So I believe this difference actually gives women hard time as well. Simply because when guy says or does something, women try their best to decipher some "hidden meaning" behind his every move because of the way they think themselves. As such, it often leads to some really unnecessary arguments out nowhere with married couples for example. Wife asks: Is everything okay? You haven't said a word today. Husband: Ye just exhausted because of retards at work, I don't feel like talking today sorry. And well....it is exactly how he said. Nothing more. He's gonna get some sleep, and be all okay tomorrow. But wife just immediately goes into brainstorming mode by instinct, and in the end she's the one who won't get any sleep because of all the thoughts of him "not loving her anymore" and "having somebody else" trolling her mind all night. So I think we guys should always make sure she gets the right idea and provide at least some sort of small detailed explanation behind anything we say to make her feel secure. Instead of just saying everything with one sentence that could have a billion alternate meanings for her. To sum it up.... Tbh I think all of these "gender problems" could be at least partially solved if both sides just saw each other like fellow human beings instead of some kinda different species lmao. Because that's exactly what we are.... We're all human. This bullshit about how a boy and girl is supposed to act is just something we learned from our parents who learned it from their parents etc. We're really not that different at the core. It's the world that's fucked up~ Alas....centuries of this nonsense passed down are difficult to "unlearn". So we just gotta work around it for now.

Exactly....the more attractive power is The more people get grilled....*cough* Japan *cough*

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