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well its a stereotype, both sexes can be sexually passive, but that doesnt mean you wouldnt have sex, you just dont seek it nothing wrong with living on your own lone wolf style :P

I'm sexually aggresive! :3 just, to the person thats willing to do it with me taht is! :3 Met no one that is willing so far :D

I dont think its so much that we are lucky or that we want it cuz that isnt the case. I dont thibk those stereotypes were created by "men" anyway. Cuz you can be raped by someone who is less attractive and/or sexually unappealing. Now dont get me wrong some dudes do go "i wish that were me" but i dont think its always a case if "why he is complaining he should be happy" but more of something along the lines of how can a dude get raped by a woman? I think the misconception most men feel about other men is that everyone of us is stronger than women while scientifically speaking it should be that way, not everyone is. I know women who are bigger and more in shape than me and i actually work out.

Like this actually disturbed me so please understand I ask seriously. Could it be a form of rape to have someone asking and berating you to choke them during sex? I've found that choking is very popular at least where I am from and I feel almost shamed into doing it even though I really hate it.

I'm assume that's a joke. But to be on the safe side, incidents I have referred to have been completely consensual, its just disturbing to be pressured to hurt the other person. Like I don't want to kink shame, if that's peoples thing go for it. I just don't like it.