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yestotally
Who here is able to pick up on signals? I am such a direct person, that unless I am also interested in someone or feel the same about someone I just can't pick up signals from that person! I feel like if people would just say it directly, a lot more relationships could be happening because you can start going out 'n stuff to get to know each other. y u so shy introverts ❜∸❜
yestotally
Apr 20, 19 at 6:19pm
AND I NEED TIPS IF YOU HAVE TIPS ON HOW TO PICK UP ON SIGNALS FROM PEOPLE YOU DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO HOW TO DO IT HELP PLEASE I NEED HELP PLEASE
chainmain
Apr 20, 19 at 6:22pm
Disassociate yourself.
yestotally
Apr 20, 19 at 6:25pm
how do you do that with people you trust or with people you're friends with? i don't fully understand the verb "disassociating" maybe as we only have the verb "to distance" in dutch.
yestotally
Apr 20, 19 at 6:26pm
Is it like trying to see things in retrospect (hindsight)? because i'm just terrible at that
chainmain
Apr 20, 19 at 6:27pm
no, pretend you are someone else and your watching the signals being given to someone else. not retrospect.
yestotally
Apr 20, 19 at 6:30pm
thanks, i'll try that.
chainmain
Apr 20, 19 at 6:32pm
I get your issue bro, its the only way I know how to deal with it. If someone else has a better idea let me know lol.
darkprinceofaudio
I am also a direct person. It seems part of your problem might be the laguage barrier.
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