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Looks or personality or both?

otakueaterd
I know that a lot of people are you busy or have things that they have to do but I have five minutes of your time will be a good way for me to see when I got to say. It's come to my attention that a lot of people go after looks more than personality as I know that it's kind of surprising with some guys from Moore wanting to think of the woman's looks or think of the woman's features and not thinking of the woman's personality but with me I always it's come to my attention that a lot of people go after looks more than personality as I know that it's kind of surprising with some guys and more wanting to think of the woman's luxe or think of the woman's features and not thinking of the woman's personality but with me I always wonder what is the point of it? Sure a woman can be beautiful in a woman can look good but what about her personality? You could have a beautiful wife but then when you look at her personality it could be totally horrible and not connecting with your own. It's the same thing with women where they would see someone in one of them to look like a celebrity or look like a TV actor or actress as I wonder why people think this way when luxe don't always get people so far when the personality is the best when it comes to people and also seeing through someone's personality if they are phony but most of the time people just look at looks before anything and then go with the flow from there in auto pilot mode. What Do you think?
ekreon
Mar 02, 19 at 3:25pm
I think both physical attraction and "mental" attraction is very important, I would say personality is king at the end of the day but that doesn't detract from it being important to be physically attracted to your partner imo.
sushie
Mar 02, 19 at 3:46pm
Both but more on the personality. Just imagine this as an investment too. If you go for looks but a shitty personality, LOOKS change with time and you can't fight that. Personality can change too but tends to be more permanent. So yeah just imagine going for the looks but they are a disgusting human being good luck in the 40s to the end of your life PEPE HANDS. In the end of the day to each his own but don't regret anything.
bobezlolz
Like ekreon and sushie already said, both matter, looks only to a point. The most important things I think are that you enjoy their company, talking to them and doing things with them, if when you are alone you find yourself wishing you were with them and thinking about them, that's a good sign ^_^ The trick is finding someone who feels the same way about you.
dreav
Mar 03, 19 at 2:26pm
I always thought of it through this way: If the personality disgusts me, I won't be anywhere near them. If the looks disgusts me, I wouldn't be able to look at them. I couldn't date a disgusting personality. If I did date someone I didn't find attractive, it would only become unpleasant for them and for myself. After all, how would you feel if someone dating you didn't find you attractive? I'd feel pretty shitty. I wouldn't wanna make someone I like feel that way.
ekreon
Mar 03, 19 at 3:06pm
Yea im on the same front dreav, I think however, if a girl has a good personality she becomes a bit more physically attractive for some reason.
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kingaj
Mar 03, 19 at 8:07pm
Personality all the way with a little bit of attraction of course there can’t be none but the right attitude and confidence can’t go wrong
infernalmonsoon
Both are important imo.
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