Probably not the best place to ask but how should I properly deal with losing friends

It's hard I have lost serval friends I was really close to on this site but they left and talk to two out the 4 that left I still wonder about how they are doing and I was saddened at first but life is full of changes with people that come and go I didn't dwell on it for it too long and moved on try to make new friends sorry if this isn't much help

It’s okay Fran thanks and thanks for the help and well dand some stuff happened between us and she stopped talking to me after not that I can blame her I shoudlve done more

I guess it depends on the circumstances of how you lost them, but at the end of the day, I'd say you deal with it like you'd deal with a breakup of any other relationship. Keep yourself busy with your interests, spend time with your other friends, and try not to dwell to hard on things that you can't control or regret choices you might have made.

Well, friendship is the unsung form of love, in my opinion, and as such, its like loosing anything you love, really. The same rules apply. So, what kinda loss are we talking about? I've lost about three friends due to them... Well, dying. And I've lost a few friends because they betrayed the trust that I and other friends have placed in them. In the former, healthy mourning is part of the healing process. In the latter, it's like a break up. You assess what went wrong, what you learned about yourself and your friend, whether you could or should try to reforge the bond, whether you still can trust them, whether you should forgive them (or be forgiven), all that stuff. And if the answer is no, you put some distance between them, give them space. Don't waste your energy giving anyone grief about it. Come to terms with what happened, and let your heart heal the way it's meant to. I hope you find my stab at the dark helpful in some way.