How to get a yandere?

Y'a know, yandere can be really direct that's just... You didn't meet a yandere... Or you aren't her senpai... Sorry =-=

i wonder if i would qualify as a yandere..i do indeed stalk ppls pages if im into them. i get obsessed with them,i NEED to talk to them everyday or else i feel like they are talking to other girls than me (pls help) tbh i dont think its very attractive ya'know

It's the kind of attitude you need to work to improve over time, preferably before being in a relationship. You need to focus on yourself and be ok first. Jealousy can ruin easily a relationship, sometimes over problems that doesn't even exist. Well, worst case scenario just avoid being a "bad ending" yandere game full of slaughter. (￣∇￣)

There's a HUGE line between yandere and tsundere. An IRL tsundere (like myself) has trouble processing their feelings and showing affection, often pushing one away out of fear and/or past trauma. An IRL yandere would be extremely possessive and emotionally abusive. Likely a mix of BPD and dependency issues. As I said in an earlier post, the jealousy would eat away at you, and if you have a person who's actually obsessed with you, it legit gets scary. It's the difference of being a war hero in anime and being a war hero IRL. It's a romanticization of something darker that those who never experienced it have a false expectations about. There are pleanty of yandere. They're the scarily abusive ones and mentally unstable ones that stalk guys and threaten to kill themselves if they don't get their way.