Is It Going to Work Out?

Umm Golden, you should really read my comments and what I provide/give to the relationship. You wanna talk back breaking than you should look over what I wrote. I do a lot of work and I put a lot of time into projects I craft and hand over as a present. Not to mention I treat him like a king. I make him sweets, I cook food when he visits, I share the expense of the dates, and I am the one smoking him up when he comes over since we share that as a recreation, I am the one who initiates sex 90 percent of the time and much, much more. Your comment is just plain rude.

guys lets not criticize her, coz thats not gonna help her.. infact that will only make her more sad.. its okeh if you find its her fault but dont be rude ^^ i initially also thought that she is asking too much, but after seeing her explanations i feel she isnt really asking a lott, i mean if my gf behaved like how her bf is behaving i might also get upset. I mean its not about the honeymoon phase anymore, its about there being no romance factor. I dont think breakup is an answer to that.. i feel u guys need to spice up your life, i dont really know how u can do that though.

Yeah, cause I'm wondering what I should do. I never said it wasn't my issue. You are being selective to what you read. I'm discussing my problem because I am not sure how to handle things. Because I am asking doesn't mean you should attack my character or what you think you know about me based off sentences. Also you said you don't know why he is with me? That is completely uncalled for. You said your GF feels that way and you do certain things to make her not feel that way when she is. Why is she with you then if you can make her feel that way? Ohh cause you said you will do something to remind her. I realize you are biased, but how is that different than what I am asking? To be reminded why is it I wanted to be with him and not someone who can. Also if I didn't like him, why would I be making the attempt to figure out what kind of future is ahead for us? Seems like that is a lot of time spent I could be doing not caring about someone I don't like off someplace else. Yeah because I do so much for him that is clearly a sign I don't love him. I really don't think someone who thinks they know everything about good relationships would have to go out of their way to remind their girlfriend or have her initiate stuff to remind you that you should love her and be telling me I treat my boyfriend like an accessory. Because that is bad advice no matter how you try to talk it up. If you don't like what I'm saying then leave the thread.