Honestly This Boy Confuses Me, I Need Help

Thank you all for the advice, I won't be pursuing him, thank god :, ) We have known each other for like 6-7 months, and no we don't know how each other look like or each other's real name. He is my age. I did walk into that pic thing tho, but I had no clue he was gonna send that. I thought he was gonna send me a joke or video like we always do, but instead he sent me something that scarred me for life lol I've already rejected him, so yeah, just gonna stand by that decision, again, thank you all~

Sounds like you did a whopper on him - and honestly judging how he reacted prior to you turning him down, either option could have side effects because I have to be honest, he sounds like an unpleasant individual if he sends random dick picks and breaks up with his previous girlfriend to get with you but still thinks highly of his ex. I just get red flags and air raid sirens like there's no tomorrow because it sounds like the kind of guy who loves to play around with the hearts of gullible young girls (he might not be but as someone who's dealt with these kind of people before - the signs are there) and I can't see this working out at all - chances are it's going to tear you apart no matter which way it goes. You don't want an LDR right? You think it feels wrong right? Then just say no. Be the respectful one to him and yourself and just leave it be, find someone who really cares about you because chances are he doesn't. In the end I hope you do what's best for you and that you find what you're looking for! It's hard work getting past rough relationships and finding that perfect partner but it'll work out in the end!

I seen dudes do that crap to any girl that turns them on, based on their appearance in social media. Type of dudes that do that are the type of dudes that'll be in bad relationship or ended up being single for a long time.

I think something like this is really common between people who don't really know how to control or have patience in their lives personally i think you being in your position of being recently single, you shouldn't get into another relationship (of any kind) for at least half the time you were with your ex at least. I say because you don't want to be one of those girls who just bounces from relationship to relationship. Its a bad cycle to go down (also you'd get into an endless emotional rebound in which you will never end up truly happy with your current relationship). depending on your age you should lick your wounds, understand what went wrong in this relationship after taking a few steps back. Then reevaluate your self to understand how much you've changed or grown as you are now done with this segment of your life. Look into your life and every aspect of your being and see where you can improve. have self love and understand selfishly what you liked from this ex and what you didn't. Alot of this takes time and alot of thinking to understand your self. The guy however sounds like a guy who (if he talks about his ex fondly, means he's either in denial or still talks to his ex alot) just hasnt gotten over his ex. Which if that's the case, means he is just emotionally unstable and his emotional instability connected with his irrational behavior over the past few days have confused you. You have a right to be confused because i doubt he understand what he wants either which led to his interesting actions towards you. His actions were spontaneous enough for him to break his normal social interaction pattern to suddenly send you a dick pick.And it caught you off guard because you were so in shock. This situation that is created you will never forget this and will haunt any continued relationship between you and this person, weather social or intimate. I think if you truly want to be a friend to this person as he has to you. Then truly be a friend to him, not a girlfriend. Show him care and make sure he is okay. Understand that he is confused just as you are (because if he wasn't confused, it wouldn't cause you to be confused about his intentions, his intentions would be clear). Don't feel sorry for him, that is a bad way to start any friendship. If this event is however too shocking for you to get over, then its probably better to say good bye to him and then just stop talking to him.