Type of person you would want to date?

Enjoys me and my time. Vice versa. Attraction, and if thats not working, next. Speaking generally: Why so many waste their time writing lists for their ideal mate? Are you getting any joy from all that expectation? Is that energy spent meeting your needs or masturbating your ego? Meet someone who blows you away. Theyre probably not what the expectation was and every situation has unique applications. Be honest about needs, direct energy and most importantly time, toward actualizing instead of fantasizing.

Its the most basic thing. Do you sincerely enjoy your time with this person and vice versa? If not then move on. Time is absolutely the most valuable thing we have to share with one another.

I'd just like a shy, but really kindhearted girl. Someone I can keep sort of to myself (I'm super selfish, ik) but still be able to have fun with.

I think its just too simple but she has to be funny and love to lie on the couch with me and just watching Anime or films but also she should be crazy and a nerd or a geek.

I don't find it to be ego stroking so much as trying to set your priorities in order and actually try not to waste your own time or someone else's by trying to date someone who does not perhaps meet your most important needs in a relationship and vice versa. Enjoying time with someone is a great thing, but that doesn't always make them the right SO for you, you know? I definitely see what you're saying though in terms of letting things happen naturally by meeting people without letting expectations get in the way and I agree. I personally am a huge fan of women with a kind heart who share at least one or two major interests with me (Animu, vidya gems, drewing, muzik, being a goof, etc.), is honest and trustworthy, and is affectionate. On a little lesser side, someone else who is or at least really understands introverts would be nice. As a side note, please stay away from the graves Misaki :(

I'd like someone cute and I mean of course I want someone I'm attracted to but I mean personality wise cute. I like the type that laughs at silly awkward moments and who I can have fun with. Also someone loyal and caring. I like a little push and pull and the chase is fun but at the end of the day it's so much sweeter to have someone willing to do those little things that show how much you care. One of the best relationships I had was like that. But then had to move and long distance for that long became too much.