Dude Advice

I am not gonna read the other comments, kinda just skipped to the end after reading the question. An advice for a woman on a dating site. Well since there are more guys, it is very likely you're gonna get your inbox spammed. Honestly, just be yourself. If that person can't accept who you are, then that person isn't worth the effort. Many people will probably disagree with my statement. But for me personally, I value honesty to the highest degree. So seeing someone just be themselves no matter how goofy or weird, I would gladly accept their friendship or even more. I'm a very patient, calm, and confident person. So to everyone I talk to, I am just me. Those that get larger messages from me is a pretty big indicator of my interest toward them.

Ssendom thank you for your input. I too highly value honesty so it would be hard for me to be someone I'm not. Neato how does me asking for advice equate to me selling out and wanting to be popular? If I wanted to sell out and be popular I'd just go around flirting with everyone. Besides not all girls want to sit around batting their eyelashes, expecting a knight in shinning armor to come sweep her off her feet. Also I asked to give perspective to you fellows on here considering all I've seen so far is "what do girls like/want/looking for" So excuse me for trying to see both sides.

Yandere xD that's too funny. Eh. Who cares about the technicalities ;3 I appreciate whatever advice I can get.

Guys are simple and easy to talk to, just get to know them and have stuff in common! (Looks are a little bit of a factor too.)

Vamxlight Thanks for your input but I gotta agree with Yandere on the easy and simple part :/ I don't understand them as much as I don't understand girls. Especially dating wise -_-

Guys are pretty simple. It's not rocket science. Really, just do what you normally do as in be yourself. No one is perfect so don't expect anything perfect. Some users here expect a little too high which most of the time get them nowhere. I personally don't like conversation through text for too long. I want to chat by voice eventually so I usually ask the person if they would like to voice chat. To me, voice chat would also give an upper hand in dating since you and the other will experience actual emotions. You can't really experience emotions through texts most of the time but that's just me. Just like how I'm currently with someone. Had a few messages then call and after the call, I thought to myself, "That person was chill. I'm gonna keep talking to them." Next thing I know, I ended up dating them once our feelings are mutual. Plus, I'm a simple guy. My bio here may not seem like it but that's to express how I think and see things. My bio doesn't actually portray of how I'm actually like honestly. I may seem like some asshole through my bio but really I'm goofy, laid back and weird as fuck. Just wanted to leave an example that guys aren't really that complex. Unless you're dealing with a desperate one then yeah, it may not go well. Good luck on your adventure.