Scariest Part of a Relationship?

When shit's starting to get really serious and stuff and you're starting to second guess and wondering if the person you're with is really the right one for you and you're really the right one for them. Gotta stop doing that and just go with the flow y'know? :I

The scariest thing...thats kinda hard. Ive had all sort of things happen to me but I guess the scariest is realizing they only saw you as something else and not an actual relationship. I dont mind if someone leaves bc they lost feelings, but if you are going to deceive than thats the problem. Ive been cheated on left for someone else fallen out of love with. None were as scary as realizing they only tell you theyre with you to fix theirselves and not to have an actual future with you. Feelings do change, and yes it can be scary. But things happen. Just dont lie to yourself and just bc it doesnt seem like an relationship at first, give it time.

when you find out they have cheated on you. in those moments (ive had 2), my heart has stopped and i literally could not breathe, and felt dizzy. i cried the first time i was cheated on, but then again, she was also my first Love.

I was cheated on by my first love, funny thing is her best friend (whom she had cheated on me with) had been the one who told me

aye..., mine cheated on me with a good guy friend of hers. the difference is, she told me crying, and we were going to try and move past it. she ended up Leaving me for that guy 3 months later..

her friend didnt cry she just told me Ïve to tell you something and im being serious¨ I ended up crying and i confronted my gf at the time.... she denied it but then it kept happening so i left her before she could hurt me anymore but then the person she cheated on me with had told her to fuck off and she tried dated me and cheated on me with her

Well probably realizing that your ex was actually a cold-hearted bi... or something like that. Or that you don´t feel some sort of happyness or that you don´t see a future for this relationship. Kinda the same with friendships