What is "nice and caring?

It usually is. I'd prefer people were just honest with their intentions. I'm pretty honest if you ask me directly.

To be fair you should treat everyone nice, gentle and fair basically. No matter of the gender or if you want to hook up with that person or not. Personally I´ve been treated really badly in the past but I don´t let things like this drag me down nor obfuscate my view. I try hard to treat other people like I want to be treated myself. In a relationship or even before that surely there are some other points like confidence.. looks etc but no matter what a person looks like, believe etc.. should make an impact on how you treat a person. With some sort of respect that means not to insult this person even though your strongly disagree with that persons views and/or character. Separate ways but keep the respect up

Well that too @ juuzou suzuya, for me it's always been like this I'm sweet and nice and kind but the douchebag guys always seems to get the girls faster then the kind guys, not saying all people are like that but it's a trend never the less that is there

I think it has alot to do with confidence and dominance. Naturally a person who is submissive in nature will seek out someone like that, even if they are a horrible person. It could have something to do with feeling secure.

Depends on who is asking. Everyone has their own perspective about nice and caring. What I think personally is someone that very empathetic and knows how that person functions. While using that precious knowledge about someone to enrich their lives with geniue intentions.

The bad part is tho people don't think the fact of sometimes easy can get u hurt more so then just doing things the not easy way