Attraction

Depends on your sexuality, as far as I've experienced with a male homosexual relationship, sexual attraction is more important; which is why I hate those relationships. I'm not sure what a lesbian relationship would be like though. I think I agree with Lycan on this. you need to have a balance of them.

Well personally for me the romantic attraction is a tad bit more important but only by a little. Sexual attraction for me usually comes as a effect of the romantic attraction. Sure I can look at someone and be like “holy hell that’s one fine human being” but I wouldn’t feel compelled to enter into a relationship or even get intimate with them. I have to have a bond with someone to feel that actual sexual attraction. But this doesn’t mean either that sexual attraction is completely worthless, to be honest, I have really liked some people, but didn’t like how they looked at all >.> or I have also had small crushes on people online, but then when I have seen how they look, and uhhh, don’t wanna offend anyone at all but they might have been unattractive. Then the romantic attraction goes down. So the sexual attraction is important and so is the romantic attraction, but the romantic attraction is a tad bit more important for me, because a true sexual attraction can’t be formed for someone before the romantic attraction is present.

I honestly prefer romantic than sexual. I have never been in a relationship so I honestly have no idea what it feels like to be sexually attracted to someone. It also doesn't help that I don't like to be touched. I have to have a really strong bond and trust with someone to allow them to touch me. I know that is a huge turn off for guys, but I still hope to find someone who can become my best friend first and have lots of patience with me. I have a lot of flaws, but hopefully I find someone someday that would look past all that. ^^ Also, whenever I see someone I like, the thought "I wanna have sex with them" or "I wanna be intimate with them" never cross my mind. I rather would like to hug them and make them happy. <3

^I've got pretty much the same thing going on. I have a sensitivity to a lot of things including being touched so it goes without saying I prefer romantic attraction based on that, but I also prefer it in a sense that for me personally the other can't happen without having romantic feelings (as well as a strong sense of trust and other things built upon in a relationship) first as I'm (het)demi-sexual and just don't feel comfortable with, say, a fling or what have you.

Romantic, Who people are at the soul, beautiful people are worth it. Sexual attraction should only be a small part of it