Biggest turn offs

Wooww that's so creepy! I can counter stalk him for you. Just start sending him random pictures and memes xD that's super uncool. I've only dealt with a situation like that once back in high school when I was a senior. This freshman in band was obsessed and would like tell everyone I was "hers" to the point where she actually cornered a girl who didn't even like me and told her to stop talking to me... like wtf lol I'm sorry you have to deal with that though! Especially since it sounds like he is in your area which makes it 10x more creepy

Lmao, she sounds like a handful. Yes just never know when he might pop up. I can deal with the internet stuff. But irl its so disturbing. Real life Yanderes so lovely. Also creepy very.

Judgemental attitudes(people who are quick to throw stereotypes at people they don't even know or try to know), close mindedness(not open to other's opinions or views and quick to dismiss), mind games(seriously, don't insult my intelligence), shallowness(heavy focus on physical appearance), constant nagging/negativity, and that's about all I can think of at the moment..

Smoking is one for me. I don't like the smell and it sets off my mile Asthma. Excessive drinking would be the main one. I just personally don't like being around girls (and male friends even) when they've had too much to drink. A couple drinks or one with dinner is okay, but binge drinking qualifies.

I would have to say that my major turn-offs are ladies that just want a one-night stand. I get what you are saying regarding the "Hook-up" culture. It really has become an issue. I am not, by any means, against sex; but I am looking for a real relationship. On a whim, I tried various dating websites, like you mentioned, and found that most of the women that I encountered on them were just looking to hook-up. I am just not into that feeling of being used. Now, I have nothing against women who desire or want sex. I firmly believe that women deserve the right to be just as free to explore their sexuality as men are. But I am not the sort of person that can have sex with someone that I do not love. A real, loving relationship has to be there, in place, before I can even begin to consider the notion of sex being an option. The major reason for this is because I am one of those people that cannot have sex without forming some manner of emotional connection with the other person. Without a serious, loving relationship, sex just feels empty to me. So that is really my major turn off.

DISRESPECT! It only takes one time and I'm done. Whether its verbal abuse or physical, I'm out of there. I'm not trying to be with someone that's going to tear me down.