Dating is tough lol.

I wouldn't really call stereotypes as statistically sound... :/ I get anecdotally you can hear that but if you go by that thought process then really only like what, the top 30-40% of all incomes in the united states would be able to get relationships. So no, I wouldn't say that only people who have flashy jobs or make lots and lots of money are the only people in the country in relationships.

even if only 10% of women in the US care about money to that extent then still you are statistically more likely to find a girl willing to date you if you have money compared to if you dont. even if only by a little bit. anecdotally I'd guess it to be higher than 10% though. but yes, the top 40% earners in the US probably have an easier time finding someone willing to partner with them than the lowest 40%. but that doesn't mean the lowest 40% will never find anyone. it's a matter of probability, not absolutes.

@Benedict. I wouldnt go calling him pathetic. He's obviously had it rough. if nothing else he has my empathy. I honestly hope things go better for him in future. and I dont think theres anything particularly wrong with Silicone dolls, though I'm not sure that it's an Idea that will work for me. I like conversation with my partner, not just sex ^_^

@Animekirk: Yeah well nothing we can do about it. I mean even I have standards for what I want in a female so it's only logical that a female would have standards for what they want in a male too right? The human species will shrink if more males begin with a silicone doll then having a relationship with a real female. I want a real female but in order for that to happen I need to be interesting and have a stable job for them to like me. My passion and motivation comes from me having a GF and since I don't have one I don't want to do anything. A common counter thrown at me is "love yourself first". That doesn't work for me. No one knows the purpose for life so their opinion isn't worth anything to me. Their headed for death just like any other human so I don't care what they say about me anymore.

Want a solution? I've got a song for you... If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he married her and then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you [Sax solo] Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you [Spoken:] Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby! Yeah, alright! If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So for my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you

Yaasshat: Ugly people aren't fully honest either so it doesn't matter. And when I say cute I mean just attractive in my own personal opinion. She can be fat but I mean there has to be some form of attraction that I like.

I'll put a better song ^_^. http://youtu.be/ZyhrYis509A

@Illuminous I hear you, man. It is indeed tough, and a lot of guys have trouble being motivated when they believe finding a mate to be impossible or near impossible. which in turn causes their chances to drop cause lack of motivation isnt attractive. it's a vicious cycle. and unfortunately only you can break it. I used to be trapped in that cycle as well. I'm currently in the process of breaking it, trying to get a better outlook on things, make more positive changes, etc. It's hard, but I dont think it's impossible. I hope you can find a reason to give it another go as well :) @Yaasshat LOL.

@Animekirk: I am, I'm just gonna learn more biology science because it's extremely interesting and I understand the Quantum physics pretty well so biology doesn't actually seem as hard so far. I'm doing it because viruses catch my interest. It's as if they are actually not alive according to some scientists. I'm also wondering why scientist don't fully understand them by now. I believe it's passion though. Like they don't have enough passion to find out how they work. Viruses interest me a lot though!