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dartinin
Oct 05, 16 at 12:16am
I got a Question for anyone willing to chat. "What Life Phase would you say you are in?" Would you say your where you want to be and if not would you like to share why not? Feel free to give some advice if you think you have learned something that could be helpful to anyone who might read and respond to this topic. Answering My own Question " Young adult, dont feel anywhere near where I'm suppose to be but I am working on it and I always make sure to keep my goals reasonable." Thank you to anyone who bothers to satisfy my curiosity.
illuminous
Oct 05, 16 at 1:05am
I guess I'm where I want to be but I don't have what I want. I said it in other posts but I'll say it one more time. All I want is a GF to do what I want and I do whatever she wants. Although people would find that robotic so it's boring to them. I know how my behavior works and know what I like which females don't like. And I'm not going to change just to please someone else if they won't please me. I'm trying to find an autistic girl who is cute in my eyes because me and normal people just don't get along. But according to science out of all autistic people about only 10% are females. And not all are cute so I'm kinda screwed I guess. All of this is subjective though if they just can handle me being obsessed over them. I want a person who knows what they specifically want and need so we can give each other what we both need or want. A lot of people tend to not know what they want for some odd reason. But I'm starting to give up on real females. Going to try and do what I've heard of what some Japanese guys are doing. Also heard Japan is coming out with robot GF some time in the future. Can't wait for that! Hoping to find a job where I can also work and be alone. Going to cut myself off from society (socially) altogether. I been trying to be more social but it just bores me if I'm not getting what I want.
dartinin
Oct 05, 16 at 2:22am
I honestly cant tell if that is sarcastic or not >.> but if you honestly feel that way I would suggest a hobby ^^ and I'm not joking ether ... find yourself a hobby (or a better site to express your hobby because no offense but this is not a hot bed of activity ) ... the more you get into something the easier it should be to find someone who shares your hobbies ... though honestly you might want to think about making yourself seem a little more appealing ... you dont need to change yourself at your core but not many people wants to be with someone who is not willing to try and reach out .. be someone they would want ... thought take this from the dude saying it lol I've had alot of friends but not alot of girlfriends lol (though all my friends tend to be girls lol) I find it easier to just drive into something you like then to worry about finding the person right for you ... once you find a community that fits you ... a relationship should just come naturally. Sorry if that was unwanted advice there or if you didn't find it helpful don't mean to pry or seem insensitive just wanted to give my own opinion on the mater.
shawnji
Oct 05, 16 at 8:21am
Quarter-life crisis. XD Nah, honestly I'm probably reaching that point in life where I feel very certain of what I want in life and have begun planning accordingly; although I'm slightly set in my ways and finding it difficult to break bad habits. Self-improvement is never easy, but I'll get there. :D
dantheman06
Oct 05, 16 at 10:47pm
I'm in the same 'ol boat. Its a non-changing phase: Forever alone :'O
hell_hound7
no where near where i want to be, and i dont seem to be anywhere close to where i wanna be. i kinda just want to be in a position where i dont have to depend on anyone and only need to worry about myself. as far as relationships thats kinda dead for me rn too many headaches and my life as it is is full of drama i dont need any extra atm
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illuminous
Oct 06, 16 at 1:09am
@Dartinin: It's cool don't worry. Everything I said is genuine and true, I don't hide my true feelings from anyone. I personally don't care if anyone judges me or not anymore. Everyone's headed to the same place one way or another and that's death lol. So anyone's negative opinion or "shame" opinion about me doesn't bother me. I'll use that opinion to whipe my ass and be on my way. And I do have hobbies, I play video games and I like to learn more science (all subjects). Favorite so far is astronomy and quantum physics. And from what I've learned from my hobbie I've found interesting things about humans beings and quantum physics. There almost alike in a way. But I don't have a license or degree so most people will just write it off as me BSing everyone lol. So I won't say anymore then that. Einstein is my role model! His equation in a way helped stop world war 2 but he also didn't like what he helped create. And WW2 was kinda BS of how it started but humans can't fully control their emotions so yeah. Before I die I want to create something useful. I don't want it to be used for bad intentions though so that's what kind of freaks me out. Wish the world was more civilized then it is right now. It's going to be a little longer to get more civilized though. And I'm going to miss so much during the space exploration era!!! I want to go see Jupiter and other galactic planets and uncover secrets and explore the universe. I'm so pissed that I was born in this era!
mrnekotamer
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dartinin
Oct 06, 16 at 4:26am
@llluminous (not sure how to tag people in comments never been a big user of Forums) I also lament the fact that I'll miss out on the space exploration era and more so the explanation era. This might sound weird but I feel like my dream job would be as some type of space trucker no joke. I feel I would like just being completely alone and being able to just look outside and see the universe ... nothing obstructing my view ... no one to take my attention away from it ... just me and my thoughts. But I'll be happy with just a work at home job and a small studio apartment, after all i think that is a little more reasonable with the world as it is right now. But I would be the first in line to test out the drug that might extend your life even if it might also kill me.
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