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Long distance relationships.

tatsuro_yanagi
I had some experiences of long distance relationship. I was told that long distance relationship will never work... they gave up but I don't give up and still believe it is possible. What matter is believe, be patient and love the person you love. It doesn't matter if you have never met or not.
hakureioni
It really really depends on the person, but more often then not they don't work out. Mostly because as some people here mentioned: 1. Both people need ENORMOUS discipline to stay faithful to each other when you are living so far away which most people are just incapable of doing. 2. In a long distance relationship you only see what your partner wants you to see. You only speak when you're both putting on your best face. That means it's harder to really get to know each other. I had a long distance relationship for a year and then we met at a con and stayed together on vacation for a week....and we broke up because we both had drastically different expectations of the other. When you're not physically interacting with a person on a regular basis and you only know what they want you to know about them then it is very hard to maintain a relationship.
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