Biggest turn ons?

People who are really interested in the things they like. Where you can just bring up a thing you know they get into and all of a sudden they're just on a monologue and you can just listen to them. (Bonus points if they'll act it out for you.)

Physically, I like glasses, long hair, and a height difference. That goes for both men and women. But I always consider looks second to personality. Being respectful, honest, loyal, and trusting is a must. The truth hurts sometimes, but I really value being open to another person. I also value intelligence a lot, but it can be a double edged sword. There are intelligent people who I have dated that ended up being manipulative, narcissistic, and downright abusive. But after my last experience which was mostly positive, I've come to learn that not every smart dude is a stuck-up asshole and it still is a preference of mine. It's somewhat important to me because I don't want to constantly have to keep giving advice all the time for very basic things, like financial literacy. Also this isn't really a trait, but I exclusively date people older than me. I like learning from people more experienced than me and like the feeling of being cared for. Not necessarily being babied (despite the fact that I am in fact baby), but it makes me feel nice inside.

I'm a man who has trouble making his own decisions and I realize that these days, but if I'm told, or ordered, I have no problem. Might not seem like it, but I'm actually most comfortable that way. I'm confident in my ability, and I could do hell of a lot. As long as someone is there to order me to. It really puts me at ease. To be able to follow orders or instructions from others. Not just anyone obviously. But yeah, guess I'm one of those types. I can't quite describe it, but I feel a certain peace in following. Edit: Now, no worries, I'm smart enough to be able to know who to follow. I tend to notice things like flaws and intentions quickly.

When the other shows mutual interest and takes the effort of contacting you when they miss you. or initiate a hug of their own.

Turn-ons? I dunno actually, I guess when someone can stand me, that I'm not your typical macho guy, but dreamy, melancholic, quiet introverted person who enjoys doing his hobbies and living in moments, wandering around nature... I feel like no one gets it, I am not selfish, I care a lot in fact, but when I do, people leave...