Random thoughts...

You mean your whole personality and mannerisms are designed to attract a specific type of personality. I'm sure your physical traits come into play as well.

No it's more like my personality is soft and gentle because that's how I am i grew up with caring parents in a good environment my mom taught me to be a gentleman plus i'm a good Christian boi(sort of) not only that but i'm also well known for always helping out, being a good student, and being smart as hecc boi(when it comes to school) as well so it's not like i'm faking or anything it's who I really am it's just my sexual desires are the complete opposite of that I become pretty aggressive and relentless i've hurt myself a couple of times one time I even sprained my wrist and had to wear an arm brace for a couple of days