Random thoughts...

Same reason why i consider myself a meninist. Alot of women like to play the role of oppressed. But men are the real oppressed ones, dudes need to stand up for themselves.

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I think men are very oppressed online @hell_hound7 I'll go through all the reasons men are oppressed. A) There are more men online than women in dating/sex areas. This means men need to be more desperate while women don't need to show their desperation. This allows women or "chad" men to call men desperate even though women just don't need to show their desperation since they always have men messaging them. I'm sure women need to deal with more creeps, but they will never get it. B) Male virgins are mocked. Called not confident. Called incels, even if they don't blame women. Women virgins are coddled or never get made fun of for it. C) Men aren't allowed to show emotions because most women prefer dominant men. Am emotional man doesn't make them wet. However an emotional woman is more accepted by society. Women get coddled for their issues while men are told to man up. D) If a man can't get a date, he's mocked. Women are coddled. There are a lot more reasons too. Like women usually are forgiven more than men and so on. I just don't think women online get it. They get men messaging them all the time. Some men don't really get that same benefit. However, by pointing this one. One is called an incel

I will EXTREMELY disagree with reason B and D You only see the outside but all those bathroom things and when woman are with each other most of time it's about "who your sleeping with " or " you can't get a date like come on I've been setting you up since February " So please don't make a blanket statement like that it annoys me @lilyyazawa

@liloreo - I'm sure women deal with a lot of problems too. I don't deny women probably have downsides. However there are a lot of pressures of being a man that women don't understand. I didn't mean to make it sound like you don't. However, men online are very oppressed and we don't get the same emotional help that women can get. Then, even worse. Bringing up these issues get men mocked or bullied.

I agree with all of that, hell i remember when i called myself a meninist and a certain female on here basically mocked me for it. Just shows the double standard. On reddit for example. The dating community there is massive. Talking hundreds of thousands. And if you sort by new posts. For every 1 female post there is like 5 male ones. Then the female posts get like 20+ likes and males get downvoted to hell so people cant see them. Dudes have it rough. For instance any woman call cry wolf for a rape but let a dude saybhe got raped. No one will care or they will say you are lucky.

Many woman do have these promblems and can't get help at all beacuse of personal promblmes I'm not saying that men do get the attention and mental help but many woman dont as well @lilyyazawa

Or...or... Call me crazy. But it could all be one's own perspective. As a man who has been around enough to know that people rarely think that much of others faults more than the individual. Sure people might occasionally make a comment, yet I myself see no need to take the us versus them attitude. It truly is not a woman or a dominating male thing. We are seen more often than not in shades of gray. That said one cannot unsee the imperfections of their own psyche and therefore perceive an added stigma that exists merely towards themselves. I envy no man or woman. I blame not society or feel what comes to me is decided by fate rather what I myself decide. Misfortune comes and goes, but the fear of living is what holds us back. That said when one acts poorly towards others.... Say by making a sweeping judgement to blanket a general public audience completely ignoring their own unique backstories, one cannot help but feel said individuals will be less welcomed company. To say, one who goes judging is the oppressing judge upon themselves. Just another way of saying, a giant red flag of what's to come.

I literally went to a community for women dealing with being forever alone and tried to give them some words of encouragement and they basically attacked me for it. So they werent forever alone they were just assholes and picky women.

The argument of "maybe its your own experience and you are reflecting" doesnt apply here. I have dealt with my own experiences and experiences seen first hand. I can safely say men are more oppressed. Sure yoi have cases of like a woman being treted unfairly but the majority rule is women get it better. A pretty woman can get away with murder in court and a dude gets maximum sentence.