Random thoughts...

Store: has online order Me: oh cool im gonna order this online Store: not accepting orders at this location Me: ok but why tho? You would think with covid going online orders would be a thin. Im just trying to be a fat boy and order my 16 quart custom made mint ice cream with brownie pieces , chocolate syrup and chocolate chips.

I don't think its weird that out of shape people have a smaller pool. Looks most often times get you in the door. Personality obviously keeps you in but being in shape is probably better than being out of shape.

To add on to my previous post, I never really understood the entire looks don't matter and people who think they matter are shallow. Actually, judging people for having standards is shallow in itself. I'm not saying looks are everything, but they do get you in the door. People dress up for dates for a reason. You wouldn't walk outside with messy hair or poop stains on your clothes. Being good looking takes good genes or really hard work and they have a bigger advantage. Yes, good looking people can have really good personalities too. Actually, sometimes people who don't look that good end up bitter or generally worse people. Depends on the person though, some good looking people can have bad personalities and vice versa. However, confidence is key too. If you are average looking and have good confidence, it won't matter.

@lilyyazawa moreover, people who put effort into something as vain as their appearance generally put more effort into their other life endeavors too! like yes if one's personality is so shockingly electric you can look like an amorphous jellyfish and be attractive but yeah one has to be interesting and be passionate about their hobbies to achieve that. ranting on, people that are so caught up in how they look or are hyperfocused on dating/intimate relationships generally don't have that super-captivating personality they imagine themselves having. tl;dr looks don't mean much, but entitlement is ugly in its own way, too