Did you learn from breakups?

1. Don't be so clingy 2. Being too sweet gets them diabetes lol 3. If someone gets attached, better ready for some drama shits 4. Don't trust too much

to never let the one you care about slip away from you due to them moving or some shit and do not lesson to your family because not mater what they say they will always dislike your significant other.

Making time for the other person is essential; after a 7 year relationship, it's one of the few things I believe can ruin something that lasted as long. Unless you're extremely busy, there should be no excuse to not at least text, call, or visit the person you care about the most.

Only I can make myself happy. Not to expect anything because expecting leads to disappointment. If your partner can't make time for you then why should you bother making time for them.

No,but my current ex and now friend (as much as the word friend hurts right now) helped me see my problems a little.The fact that I don't take charge when it's something I don't want in the realtionship so I became weak and don't wanna break up out of fear of loneliness.That I rush into things way too soon and hardly get to know the person so after a few days or not many months think I'm in love with the person and their the one.Being autistic talking can be hard for me just being around my ex and making a connection I can be myself I kind of can communicate better.Also I've dated people younger than me in the past so they maybe immature only want something sexual and not want to take our relationship seriously and have a serious relationship together they say they do but they never put forth the effort.

I did learn something. There is nothing wrong at following a dream, but you must be ready to face the fact that the dream could lead to be alone. And in that in loneliness there is nothing wrong, you can be happy by yourself.