How to...

- ... repair a broken heart? - ... get over it? - ... move on? I'm thankful for any advice.

Understand that it wasn't your fault and you can't always get what you want. just because someone has different preferences does not mean that you are any lesser. People often look for something that fits them. If you don't fit; It's no Big-deal and you shouldn't try to make your self fit just to make another person like you. Repairing a broken heart is shitty, but you just have to come to terms with the good and bad of it. Think of it in a logical light rather than in an emotional. People are often plagues by the thoughts of "What if? and "Why not?", There's a reason it didn't work-out and if you push it aside that reason or run from it; then you'll only be making yourself suffer. Honestly, if you aren't right for each-other, then you aren't right. Nothing more, nothing less. You can't force such things and you should not. Just accept it, Respect it for what it is and move forward.

@Un, thank you very much @mau, du Arme D: Hoffe es wird wieder

ok i do not speak German, at least since High School. please translate. I am also not trying to discourage you. I am still broken after 6 years because i was invested in it for 12 years.

@mau, Oh sry, thought you are German since it says "DE" on your profile -> poor thing, hope will it will get better @xxy, bezweifle ich sehr^^

If everything else fails. Fake it until its real. Force yourself to believe that is over and you are moving on. *curiosity tingles*

Having a broken heart hurts, I know that feeling all too well. Here's how to start feeling better: 1. Distance yourself away from your now ex girlfriend/boyfriend. This includes distancing yourself electronically too (unfriend her on Facebook, delete her number from your phone, etc) 2. You should let the feelings out somehow. Cry or be angry if you have to. I recommend writing your feelings down on paper (trust me, it works) 3. Take some time to reflect and do some soul searching (going on walk or being outside would be a good time to do that). 4. Try talking to someone you trust about it. Emotional support from friends or family members always helps. 5. Learn from the experience and try to better yourself. 6. Do the things you enjoy, have fun, and focus on your own life again. I really hope this helps.