so im friends with both of them..

they all said it, but yeah clearly Paul wasn't ever interested in it, or he was at first but her fire sucked all the oxygen from his flame for her, it probably got to serious too soon for him. than she clearly is a hopeless romantic and makes rash decsions in heat of the moment, so she messed up (even though she told him, shes still *tainted* with the sin of cheating, if youre in a bad relationship than end it, dont fuck around) theirs nothing for them to do, the whole "being friends" after a bad break up never works out, and that distruct for her will always be there, they should just cut it off. and she should stop getting in relationships and work on herself, the whole doing everything and anything she can is a sign of low-confidence, as well as the hopeless romantic, she needs to work on herself, discover herself, or else she will do the same thing over and over again but burning her candle to hot and too quickly