Does appearance really matter?

people who say appearance doesnt matter are either lying to themselves or are a lil cray. to me appearance and personality matter equally. i have to be attracted to both for anything to work out. i also dont have photos of my on here. i used to but then i got some rood ass comments from some random guys and i got so upset i deleted them lmao.

Yea I agree with naeri, you're lying to yourself if you say appearance doesn't matter. It totally does. lol

Appearance does matter. People look better and put out more confidence when they put effort into looking good. I feel like a million bucks in a nice suit and tie with a fresh cut from the barbers. And when a girl who doesn't normally wear makeup or fix her hair does so, guys notice hard core. But appearance doesn't count for shit if you're an ass to people.

Eh... Honestly yes. Only in the beginning because once I see how someone acts around me their actions could cause me to view them more or less physically attractive than I did originally. Like if I found a guy physically unattractive and he treated me kindly with respect somehow I start to notice features that make someone attractive like their hair or cheekbones or idk rather than their unattractive features.. Lol I think it's probably a result of having a crush on someone

Yep, it certainly does for me. If I don't find a girl attractive then the chances of me dating her have dropped to basically zero. There's no strict criteria for me though; as long as she's healthy, hygienic, cute and has a good personality to back up her nice looks then I'm fine with that! Of course I have my preferences; average build, nice voice, nerdy, big boobs, brunette or blonde, intelligent, energetic, etc but it's not required so that stuff's all secondary for me o/

I does most definitely. I have to be attracted to a guy in order to date them. That is only part of it. What's attractive to one person may differ to the next. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Personality and how they carry themselves comes next.

To an extent appearance does matter, on instinct we look at people we're attracted to an look for things we like about them. But at the same time you may meet someone who's insanely hot but a horrible person, and on the other spectrum someone less attractive could be the sweetest person you ever met. You can't get mad for people being attracted to good looking people, but you also can't be blind to who they are on the inside. Because at the end of the day, that's who you'll be dating

It is a little yes and no in my opinion. Everyone will have something they are attracted to. Sorta plays apart in it just not the major factor. Their has been women I found attractive but found the personality not to my liking. Their are many qualities that tribute to falling for someone; looks, personality, interests are some examples. In the end it all depends on the person and what they are looking for.

Well I won't outright lie and say that appearance doesn't matter at all to me, there's definitely a point in the looks department where it's just a dealbreaker for me. But personality is definitely what attracts me, I've always been attracted to women solely because of their personality most of the time because I look for mental stimulation in a partner. I seriously can't keep interest in or respect people that don't have any passion for anything, can't hold a serious conversation, is close-minded and only has opinions deeply based in subjectivity, etc. Doesn't even matter if I want to date them or if I just wanted to be friends. I'd end up distancing myself pretty quickly :v