One of my exes STILL has it out for me...

DISCLAIMER: Before I get into this latest interesting story, the ex I'm referring to isn't my previous one (the good one who I'm still friends with), but it is the one I've mentioned in many topics/posts in the past, so here goes: I finally got around to visiting a friend of mine who lives about a half hour away from me. While we were out to lunch today, he brought up something interesting. My ex emailed him recently acting all nice towards him and asking how he was doing. He replied that he was doing well. She replied back to him asking if he'd be her boyfriend since she would 'give herself to him' and that she 'knew he would treat her better than I ever did'. He felt suspicious of her (which he should've) and simply replied that he wasn't interested and blocked her. Apparently, she's still badmouthing me and the fact that she had the nerve to try and get in my friend's pants when I've been nothing but courteous to her in the time period that we've broken up since just really doesn't sit right with me. I've left her alone for well over a year and the only close contact I had with her in that period was when I tried to give some of her things I still had back to her at CtCon (which I had to give to a mutual friend rooming with me to give to her) and accidentally running into her at AAC (which when she did recognize me through one of my cosplays, avoided me and only spoke briefly to the same friend I mentioned above). I haven't even set foot in CT (where she's from) since last summer nor have I really kept in contact with anyone closely associated with her. I've been more than generous on my end, but it truly hurts me that even though I never once tried to get back at or retaliate against her, she still wants to give me bad rep and get at me through the few otaku friends in the New England area I have left.

I mean, if anyone remembers (or if I ever even explained the whole situation around when we broke up), yeah, I effed up on my end just as she did on hers, but at least I admitted to my mistakes, got some help and continued to better myself. What has she done? Nothing...nothing at all. Simply won't let it go unless I'm miserable. After hearing about that incident and just overall a bad past year of congoing, like that same friend, I'm swearing off anime conventions. Yes, it's partly because of her, but it's also a lot of money for me right now. However anyone looks at it, I'll let her continue doing whatever it is she's doing, as long as I'm nowhere near her when it's going on (mainly at New England cons since she always somehow finds a way to mooch a ride and/or room at a lot of them recently). Do not fret though, for if anyone wants to ever see/meet me or cosplay with me, I will try to attend small non-convention gatherings like the ones Noir and I are attempting to create. I might also be attending PAX East in Boston, MA next year with the friend since it's more of a gaming convention (can still cosplay videogame characters) and most of the 'friends' I've lost through her aren't big gamers. Sorry for the long rant, but this latest incident really pushed some buttons. I still remain strong and fight on to do what I want to do. Who knows, maybe if I come into some money, I'll get on the road or up in the air and check out some anime or gaming cons outside the northeast region. Until then, I encourage any of you who live in, around, or are planning to be in the northeast region this summer to contribute to any possible otaku meetups/gatherings. Again, sorry for the rant. Enjoy!

PS - Yet again, sorry for the super long rant. It was so long, I got an error message when I tried posting it, so I broke it down into two parts. Thank you for your time!

Damn bro, she's a real b***h lol. I like to get email addresses of people like that and sign them up for animal/feces porn. But that's because I can be a real vindictive dick sometimes lol.

Even if I knew what her newer email is (I got a bit of spam from her old one a couple times, so it must have been hacked), it's not worth it because 1) She would immediately point fingers at me even if it wasn't me (and she's got an army of 'brothers', 'sisters', 'mothers', and 'fathers' a.k.a. former 'friends' of mine to back her up) & 2) I'd be no better than her. If she wants to keep being immature, ignorant and childish than she was even when we were together, it's not worth stooping down to her level and retaliating.

I agree with k3nsh1n4life, but then again I can be a bit vindictive too. It sounds like she has some mental issues if she's still acting like this after a year. If she can't move on that's her problem. Don't let that ruin your life, you can do better.

Yeah, I'm still fighting on. She tried taking a stab at me indirectly and it backfired on her. As long as I continue to keep my nose clean, then hopefully any other things she attempts on me will also backfire.

That shit cray.

I think you did great. Same thing goes for your friend. Its for the best that you just keep ignoring her. Its not worth it. Trust me. As long as you stay away from troubles and just do what you want that's all that matters. And don't try to be stressed out with everything she's planning on doing. She's already old enough to do the right thing. If she plans on doing it again, just let her. Its her decision and that's already outside of your zone. She needs to move on and be more mature as far as I can say.

Thanks SixSilver! As far as the maturity goes, she's far from it. She behaved childishly before, during, and after the relationship. I thought she moved on well before I ever did, but judging by what went down, she seems to have not (or at least tried and failed). I'm not stressing over it. If anything, I kind of feel sorry for her that she's stooped so low and seems like she won't be satisfied even if I were to drop dead. I Facebook PMed the guy who is organizing CampAnime the other day telling him I wouldn't be attending due to personal reasons with certain people attending (a.k.a. the ex if she responds to the invite she got and the few people who are going so far associated with her). He replied today saying he was sorry that they were preventing me from going and wished me the best. Oh well, back to planning some northeast otaku gatherings!