Truth or Dare

@Leek i drank alcohol when i was 12 lol another truth

I accept the answer :) @Anna What's the one thing in your life(which is very present currently) that you could go without?

My 7 dealbreakers and these are not just for dating but for knowing me in general: - They treat family, friends, or servers and waiters/waitresses terribly. Nope. All of the nope. Out the fucking door. Why? Because the way I see them treated... That's me the moment she feels comfortable and stops trying to impress me. If I see her acting violently or mean, rude, condescending to others with little or no provocation theeeen I'm out. - Any mental manipulation tactics. If she tries to play head games to get her way then I'm walking off the table. I left that shit behind in high school. -People who cannot let themselves be vulnerable. They can't ever be the butt of the joke, they always want others doing things for them, they really only treat people well if they feel those people are "better" than them. Show a little humility and learn to laugh at yourself. A subset of this are people who never want anything to be their fault. Every breakup is 100% on the other person. Anytime something goes wrong it's because someone else screwed up. And any faults of theirs is somehow because of how someone else treated them. -People who lack commitment, drive, or motivation. If they have no work ethic and no drive to improve themselves then it's a pretty clear indication as to what a relationship with them will be like down the line. Not the kind I'd want. People who treat work like it's always terrible and who treat ignorance like a virtue because they are too lazy to question their beliefs annoy me. I cannot stand the spoiled princess types either. -Flakes.Everyone's got some busy moments in life, but if you're the kind of person who cancels dates and/or just doesn't show up and makes no attempt to apologize and maybe make new plans then you're out. If you're the kind of person who always says you'll call or text back and you never do then you're out. It takes 10 seconds to say sorry and come up with something else. So unless you're always going through some emergency there is no excuse. Which leads me to... -Drama Queens and Emotional Babies. I cannot stand it when people try to make everything a big deal. If you're getting ready to throw something across the room just because I ate your ice cream cup then that is a resounding no. -She lacks common courtesy. If they never apologize or say thank you and always act like it should just be expected or even worse gets pissy about it then it is a the reddest red on the biggest of flags. Trust me on this. And I guess for an 8th, though I'm not sure if these count as dealbreakers as to me they just seem like common sense but yeah if they're a hardcore drug user, murderer, rapist, criminal type or if we just don't get along talking.

@Ennis my laptop another truth

Agree with pretty much all of that nya Another truth nya?

As a caveat, I'm not saying a person has to be perfect. If you're having an off day and are just really upset, or if you just feel drained and don't feel like doing anything then that's understandable. We're human. Some of these dealbreakers are about someone who is consistently like that.