What does this sound like to you?

Being single for 19 years(all mah life, kek), I've had good friends, who I liked, who've had been swept up by their feet by someone who hadn't been there for more than 2 minutes. And when that happens sometimes, I feel like kindly going up to the other guy. Stare straight into his eyes...smile at him and calmly say.. "Sir, do you know who that is? Do you realized how blessed you are?" "Welp, if you break her heaRT I WILL SLICE YOUR THROAT. POQUITO, I AIN'T EVEN FUCKIN' WITH YOU" "Ahem." "Sorry, have a good day, sir." I mean, I can already say it's a bit frustrating when you stay true to yourself but people you geniunely want to know better and grow a great friendship over time don't find you interesting in that way. I'm talking about different types of people, not one girl I've asked out is similar to the last, maybe in some aspects but.. I say that because recently, I turn left and right and one friend after another begins dating, and it's like I don't exist anymore. ~T http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn170/Tthedragon/laughs_zpsavgpxglh.jpg

Ok... So, take hold of your balls and take initiative. Also, it does tend to get hard for some to balance a relationship and friendship, but if they're a true friend, they'll be there for you too.

I've got balls of steel. And if that's the case, man, I only have 1 true friend bruh. Which I truly appreciate them. ~T

It's better to have one true friend rather than many aquaintances. Also, don't let it get to ya, you'll find a relationship when you least expect it.

True yasshat. '"Welp, if you break her heaRT I WILL SLICE YOUR THROAT. POQUITO, I AIN'T EVEN FUCKIN' WITH YOU"' -- Hmm this reminds me of when I was young and foolishly romantically idealistic. Sounds a bit white knight-ish with a side of passive aggressiveness. If you have balls of steel you are not wearing them on the outside maybe. Perhaps how you say things or carry yourself is not well representing your character. Teslan it can be troubling when your friends lives change which can affect you too as they spend more time with their new bf/gf. Also when they are new to dating it is easy to get caught up in the new experiences and lose perspective; aka neglect friends. This happened a lot in my circle of friends when I was the same age. Do not get lost in envy of your friends, focus on being your own best. You will run into someone you can not overlook and will be ready to meet them.

Oh, gosh I know that feel. D: It gets on my nerves. >~<

My sister (who I cherish a lot) is dating someone. Right now, they are having fights and arguments. It is normal for any relationship, but I can't help to get very worried, angry, or intense. :/

I can understand the feeling to an extent. You have to work at even meeting someone new and some random guy can just get a gf in what seems like 5 minutes if he wants too. Or the good old excuse/shoot down of "I'm not interested in dating anyone right now" and then within two weeks are dating some other guy. That being said, if a girl is infatuated with some new guy within days of meeting them, that's all it is, infatuation. Crushes are fine and all, but to me a girl who is willing to just drop everything and start a fullow blown relationship with some random guy within days of meeting him is rushing it and is not a good judge of character. They're only really relying on the superficial aspects of the person and the limited knowledge they've learned about them without really knowing anything about the person, their past, personality, and other important aspects of the persons life. Obviously it's nice to get back into dating someone, and the rush of getting through the dating phase can seem ideal, especially if you haven't had a girlfriend in awhile. That being said, rushing into a relationship with someone you barely know is also a huge red flag and can contribute to someone who has had multiple relationships and relationship issues and why they can never seem to find "the one" to stick with.

I was actually in a similar situation, I guess. You're the one who has to go after whoever you wanna get to know better. I had to initiate EVERYTHING in order to hang out with my nerd boy, and it sort of worked? Just go after the man or woman who you want, in a non creepy way. Take things slow. If it doesn't work, you'll find someone else.