Looking for love

Shit son, Donnie rekkin' like crazy http://media.giphy.com/media/3gBrHplKKlleg/giphy.gif I don't know if this gif has relevance but it somehow fits - but yeah Donnie is perfectly right, just enjoy life the way it is right now and good things will come out of it in time.

I don't agree with that part of letting it come to you though. I do think you have to take risks and put yourself out there. You have to put in the effort towards things, not just in yourself. It is a balancing act that you learn to judge with more experience. What you want won't just show up. Ya gotta dig a lil deep sometimes.

While it'd be nice to think this is 100% a dating site, a good majority of people treat it more like an otaku facebook than a dedicated dating site. You're going to have a lot more guys than girls, and many more of those guys are looking for a relationship than the girls are. A good portion of the people who join the site are minors, and to be fair, so is a lot of otaku fandom in general. While it gets some traffic, don't expect to find a ton of people in your immediate area. It helps if you live in a populous state like CA, TX, or NY but the majority of people who are active are pretty spread out or there's a lot of users who haven't logged in in awhile. Understanding that, if you're still dead set on using this site to find a relationship: - Have at least one or two irl photos on your profile. Having an anime avatar is fine for your main pic, but you should have enough confidence in yourself to have a couple of pics to let prospective people know what you look like. If you don't, it honestly comes off as you hiding something or the less desirable traits about yourself. I know in an ideal world, we all would love one another for our personalities, but that's just not realistic unfortunately. My mantra is always "it's hard to be in a relationship with someone you're not attracted to". - Don't expect countless people to fawn over you just because you have a profile up. Visit people's profiles and comment on them, send out friend requests, and try to make at least an occasional post on the forums. Showing you're active at a minimum means you're at least trying to interact with others and engaging the community. - Try not to be a creeper. Especially with girls, as they get bombarded by plenty of guys on here being the minority. Say hi, ask some questions and take a genuine interest in the person and their lives with as much as they're comfortable sharing. Lay off the sex or really personal questions until you're really friends with them and/or they're comfortable sharing with you. Most of this seems like no brainer stuff, but some people still miss out in it.

It's all about experience Cecil... can't be common sense if you don't have any thing to build it off of. And unfortunately, most on here are really young mentally, not just age wise. Point being, having.anything real develop from this site will take time/ effort, patience, Self awareness and respect for yourself and others.

Its all about raking in those experience points... even if its communication thru a BBS board ... still a Lv UP compare to online dating sims ... A decent number of people here are anti-social Introverts like myself with some even as hikkikomori(shut-ins) https://hikkichan.com/hikki/src/140470121726.jpg Its kinda perplexing ... if the above picture works ... I am just mind-blown since I would totally try get her out of the house