why do people here have 10+ pictures of random anime bullshit and 0 pictures of themself?

I don't know why care, it's their own life so let them live it like that. I'm not here to start a relationship either but almost all of my pictures are selfies. Some of them want a relationship and don't have any selfies published. A person can decide how to do things. Get over it.

Maria it's a discussion of why and why not. You don't have to partake if you don't care...

Well no i think what shes trying to say is it shouldnt matter why or why not because people have their own reasons and ways...and spiky...im tired of repeating myself i said "ME SPECIFICALLY MEANING NO ONES WILLING TO DATE ME GEEZ DO WE GET WHAT IM SAYING NOW"

Well she said get over it implying the topic at hand was irrelevant. But if she feels that way, she's not forced to partake. I for one always found it annoying, the lack of rl photos, hence why I am here discussing...

Yeah I said so more directed towards the people that are not discussing but they're rather labeling those that have no pictures. If it is a discussion one have to take part with an objective look of the whole thing.

Well i for one am not against posting real life pics but todays society is too frickin shallow that i get afraid ill be rejected...so i show a pic either A.if im comfortable with you B.we are dating already Or c. You show me one of you...so ill show just not post

Meh *shrugs* I prefer to see faces. I take people more seriously when they take that chance. I mean in reality that's how it is, so...

its not really a ''chance'' to me, its something i can do, i choose not to as i feel i have no reason to, i dont really want to put the time into taking a selfie just to put on a website where i will at most have a discussion on a forum with someone