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z3rosiris
I had a girlfriend break up with me about a month ago and just got over it... But now she calls me back crying to get me back... I don't want to get in another relationship with her but I don't hate her so I want to let her down as easily as possible... Even though she didn't give me the same courtesy.
zen94
Oct 06, 11 at 9:24pm
could do the good ol "I just want to be friends" thing
z3rosiris
Oct 06, 11 at 9:37pm
That's one thing that won't work in this situation though. The main reason she says at least was because of a forty-five minute drive which didn't make a difference to me but neither of us want the just friends thing, I just want to let her down as easy as possible even though she broke it off with me in the worst way possible after I even told her I had previous problems with girls breaking it off that way, which is why I don't want to be friends or another relationship, but I am a nice guy so I don't want to just throw away her feelings I can't stand making people cry so I just want to go the path of least resistance.
noriko
Oct 07, 11 at 7:49am
Just tell her you need some time to think about it, and when you feel enough time has passed, let her know you aren't interested and wish her the best. Or just say you met someone else. ^_^
ryuseven_0
Maybe you should tell her not to put her life on hold anymore. Tell her she needs to move on and stop trying to take the easy way out. It might be tough to find some else but she cannot take back what she ended. You are some where else in your life now and to look back would only hold her and you back. Just a thought
z3rosiris
Oct 10, 11 at 8:18pm
I'm not really sure whether or not I want to get back together with her... She at least seems genuinely sorry for what she did... I'm just not sure if I can trust her anymore....
zen94
Oct 11, 11 at 7:46pm
we can give advice but its your call I personaly wouldn't go back out but I dont know her so I have no clue whats in her mind gl w/ your choice
kimiko
Oct 12, 11 at 12:20am
Tell her there's plenty of fish in the sea. I wouldnt go back with my ex, no matter how hard he'd beg, there's a reason why it didnt work. Your choice though.
sweetmarii
a girl like that sounds like she wants you when she gets desperate you want a girl who is actually decisive and knows what she wants and not what she needs to cure her loneliness. find someone who can love themself.
sweetmarii
a girl like that sounds like she wants you when she gets desperate you want a girl who is actually decisive and knows what she wants and not what she needs to cure her loneliness. find someone who can love themself.
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