WHY ARE OTAKU GIRLS HARD TO FIND

That it's typically a lot easier for women to find a date offline than it is for a guy, that's all. Why else then would you say guys seem to outnumber women something like 4 to 1 here?

Generally speaking, what I'm guessing neet is more or less getting at is that a lot of geeky/otaku girls in general are already taken and generally don't have a shortage of guys being interested in them. While I wouldn't necessarily say this is true 100% of the time, more times than not I have met someone new or have taken genuine interest in a new girl only to find out they're already in a relationship. It's not their fault, but for the gamer/otaku geeky male crowd, it can become pretty frustrating after awhile. I do think there are a lot of genuinely nice girls who are single out there. I've seen plenty of them join this website. But with everyone so spread out, and unless you live in a very populous state like CA, NY, or FL for example, your chances of finding someone online that's even remotely local (at least on a site like this) are kinda low.

Some of them are actually hard to get with too due to their different ways of perceiving things so its no easy for guys at all :/

I say so because I'm one of them and I understand but I can't help it. Some guys get interested at me at first but they usually give up on me bc of that. And some actually try, but it happens I'm not interested.

Or to rephrase: "Why are single, over 18 (who are interested in dating a 38yr old), monogamous but a nypho in bed, who live in my country, otaku girls hard to find?

The first problem is that when you act over the top online it screams immaturity to women. Women in my experience like these 5 things above all else: Manners Proper grammar Honesty Ability to do domestic chores Intelligence If you're not doing any of the above five, you're not going to get anyone that's worth being around. I'm not being pretentious, or rude to women who don't find one or more of those important, but I'm saying women who know what they want and are going to be committed, honest and caring with you will likely champion those traits.

Unlike a lot of people, I don't sugarcoat things much. I tend to be described as a brutally honest person, and that's the truth. I've been in a few relationships, all of them platonic, so I know how to be compatible with someone other than sexually. I've met plenty of people whose relationships are held together literally by ejaculate and orgasms.