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Ever feel like you will never meet "the one"?

jmac525
I used to be pretty positive that I would, and the small hope remains, but I get a little more doubtful each year that passes by. No girl has ever really shown much interest in me up through high school to my last year of college. Shyness has held me back a bit too, but the hope still remains to find the girl for me.
xueli
I believe in the one you round up to one hahaha. But honestly, no such thing as "the one" and it's not a good mentality for relationships. Oneitis is a very serious disease :p
johnjonez
Lol. I really like that the OP never re-posted or clarified what he meant.. I think he means "the one" you'll settle down with and be with forever.. I don't think he means "the one" and only one for you on this planet. I could be wrong.. all I could say for you OP is we all get lonely time to time.. don't get desperate or down on yourself. Live your life and love will find you.. just be ready to act when it does. YES I've felt like that.. I've also felt like I've found fake "one's".. but only now do I know they were phonies.. gluck.
key17
meh. I don't believe in 'the one' concept.
hogaki
Unfortunatelly, no. I mean, for someone to be "the one" she should be perfect, I think so. However, I would be happy with someone who likes me and wants a serious commitment with me. :)
nobleviolet
"The one", as in "the only one"? No. I believe there are "many ones" that you come across in life, and may even find more than that you truly love. Love is just a concept, anyway.
grimm13
I know how that feels bro, been trying to find "her" for a long time, there were times when I thought YES I found her but sadly most blew up on my face. Still hoping though so there's that
metame
I saw Keanu Reeves once...
re_aper
A lot of guys in my area are players or aren't into someones personality more than their figure and face. I personally don't think I'll find 'the one' until I go off to college
afomaru
Damn, someone beat me to the matrix joke. Well, I think it's possible to have multiple "The Ones". I mean, most people are changing all the time, in terms of personality, hobbies and the like, so it makes sense to me that everyone's potential "The One" also changes with time. I have an Ex who I thought was the one, and she thought I was hers, but her priorities changed over the years and we split up. Was planning to get married and had lots of wonderful thing in mind. But people can change. So I'm trying to seek out my new One, and hopefully she's even better than my first one.
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