Advice on appraoching "Otaku" women

I guess I better describe the intent of my response better: Dates are easy for me. It's just a matter of appropriate effort and being out there. I'm mostly venting to friends here. I've found you cannot set life goals by how lonely your are for female companionship. Once a girl wants you they'll use you regardless of personality, physique or respect for your feelings. I keep my self worth pretty far from dating so I don't get depressed. I'm trying to refine my "bad person" detector so I don't get annoyed :)