Getting over and starting a-new.

So..Lemme try and get this the least TL;DR way possible. I had a girlfriend for three straight years, the first and ONLY girl I've dated in my lifetime. We've been apart for almost three years as of July 4th...Oddly our anniversary. I want to try and get over her, and find someone else. But to be honest I find it so hard because I want someone better than her. Someone who LIKES the things I do, someone who can sit down and play retro videogames and headbang to metal with me, or mosh to some punk. I dunno...It feels like everything's bleak. I haven't gotten over the heartbreak. What do, maiotaku?

What she said, but I'll add that maybe at some point you should check out some events that you like (conventions, concerts) and see who you meet there. Believe me, buddy, I know how you feel. I've been there.

I'm living in the same situation. Starting new it isn't easy. Been in three relationships and each of them ended on the 4th year. Seriously don't know why it always stop on the fourth year for each of them. The current relationship is the my worst breakup yet. She decided to packed up and left and leaving 50% of her stuff still here. If I donating them hurts my heart, but keeping them gives me pain because these things reminds me of her. Is money the biggest problem in a relationship? Because it really seem to be with all of mine.