Plus Size Looking For Relationship Thread.

To be honest, I like a girl who is a bit chubbier. Not like super big, but a little bit is never bad at all. I've got all sorts of likes, and a girl, for me, doesn't need to have all the qualities I'm looking for, but I do prefer some. :)

Well, I am plus sized, but I've struggled with being that all my life. I've literally starved myself before and got nowhere. I did lose weight, but not much. At that point, I realized I would always be this way. Just stay in the healthy zone, and it'll be okay. I still try to find ways to lose weight, but personally I think its some kind of chemical imbalance with me. Doctors still don't have a clue. I even work out! I'm strong because of it, but it still doesn't improve my waistline. -_-; At any rate, this discussion seems slightly off topic. (Even though I contributed to that, gomen.)

No worries Violet it isn't off topic at all. And yes I understand you I have gone threw the same thing..I believe it is just a chemical imbalance, Also to do with our metabolism maybe. Even if we eat healthy and eat normally. I also have tried starving and it doesn't do good just makes you gain even more weight once you start eating again normally. TO me exercise doesn't really do a difference either.. So I understand what you mean. Don't worry people who act shallow like Animefood are stereotypical of plus size people, THEY Don't even understand what goes on with them. They just assume ' Oh he/she is fat so he/she is a glutton that eats too much fatty foods and doesn't exercise. ' .-. Seriously he needs to get a frickin clue.

Lol. I've met worse than him. A lot of people say I'm cute, regardless. (Even if I don't believe them and get embarassed all the time) But yes, metabolism is a factor as well. And it did kinda hurt to read what he said. But oh well. I'm used to it. :/

I know..So have I. ;~; The amount of crap and negative attitude we get from people is just ridiculous. Seriously what is wrong with being chubby,fat or overweight? As long as you are healthy there isn't anything wrong with it.. And I bet you are very cute! Believe it honey ~ ( YOU ARE CUUUTE I Checked your profile. <3 You have such an adorable face ;7; <3 ) And I know..Just ignore him he doesn't know anything. He is just one of those stereotypical people who in reality are clueless. .-.; Sigh I can't believe he brought up the ' Squash someone ' Thing. Something only like people over 500 pounds can really do. .-. Wow it was just shallow to say that. Just ignore him. Everyone deserves love no matter what size, shape, or race they are..We all deserve love.

I'm around 140lbs and I've had 300lb girls on me and it didn't bother me so that squash thing is stupid. I notice the weight thing tends to be more of an issue with younger guys who expect all girls to look like the girls in whatever porn they learned about sex with.

Cant you just lose weight :O Control your eating, Cardio, Replace all food with Fat free/Whole Wheat, surround yourself with people that want to lose weight. Not that hard, I did it and still am doing it. I was pretty big lol

Sometimes it's not that easy. Thyroid problems, genetics, etc. issues can also play into it. A majority of Americans do overeat, but not all, but yes all that can help as long as it is stuck with. I exercised for a bit, but slacked off recently due to depression. I'm trying to get into again, though. I mean, I'm not 300lbs huge, I'm 185~ish, but still not where I want to be. I'll get to it again though...

(you beat me to it Jikoshy, comment for Rivera) ^If you read thoroughly you would know that because of genetics and hormone imbalances that some people have no control of their weight regardless of diet and exercise. Some people will always be on the fatter side regardless and some people will always be skinny regardless. I know a girl that can sit around eating all day and it looks like she's starving to death because she's so skinny. Other people just can't lose weight.