I dont know how to find her...

x.x I dont know what to do. My life is so odd, i feel like i cant do a real life relationship due to work and stuff. im confident at getting a girl on a date. Granted, those girls were boring, and didnt like the fact i collect gunpla... So i just wanna meet an awesome Otaku, nerd, or geek. Online or off. But unlike girls with high heels and preppy nature, i dont know how to go about getting into a relationship with a fellow nerd. (I know i dont look it... shut up) Cuz face it, its hard to meet a girl like that at my coffee joint, cuz most nerds like me dont get out much.(introvert) I CAN GET A DATE! Every two years... Its hard for me to get interested! And any nerdy, geeky girl i meet i just click. Advice plzzzz BLAAH! words. x.x

I can't understand you. Use paragraphs, please. I'll just answer your topic line: Be yourself, be honest, open your eyes and grow a set. Should about cover it.

:1 ass. plus saying grow a set is funny seeing how i said i can get a date. That advice is bland and not even worth my time. Look, i made a paragraph. Did you know a proper paragraph is five or more sentences long. Who knew. Ill just wait for someone with the ability to read and who wont offend me. xD

Well since you said you're busy with work, are there any girls in your workplace that you like? I dont know what the girls are like where you live but wearing high heels doesn't mean a girl isn't a nerd on the inside. Lol sometimes we nerds like to dress up. You could chat with a couple of coworkers and find out their interests. Good luck on finding the girl of your dreams.

Thanks, By high heels i was just saying they were prissy and not nerdy. I know many women of all types wear them. haha. But thanks.Girls at work are not though... not nerds. one is, but shes my boss and not my type to say the least. (shes crazy) o-o

You said you been working all days? Have you try to find time to go out? If you want nerdy girl, best would be in the bookstore. Nerdy girls like to gather in a group or either stay home. Usually nerdy girls like to read, not too much in sport but they also like to eat too. Try looking for places that with a good, cheap restaurant since they know their math. Also look for college, and quiet place. Good luck with your search :D.

No problem, glad I help but don't try to force them because they are smart and cautious. That don't mean you are not smart. At least be gentle and try to tell them your honest heart, don't fake it. Be realistic, be friend first before plan to hit a home run. Trying won't hurt but don't pest them too much unless you don't want to be called stalker. Never tried the red ridding hood approach because they see you as hyena. For more reference, I suggest you read this manga "Love Riron". I know it may not be 100% accurate but has some realistic method about 70%. Do your best Ganbatte

I know to get a girl, just didnt know where to find the right one. But will do! /:3 Ill give it a read. I recommend Fuuka. Nice new ongoing story.

The difference between your "Paragraph" and my statement are just that. I wasn't telling some QQ crybaby story about how you don't know how to find that special girl blah blah, then freaking out at the end like a blubbering idiot. You not only made yourself look like stupid, but highly immature as well. If that is how you act, it's no wonder why you can't find anybody compatible. This would make sentence five for you. Onto my "advice", which I clearly stated was directed to the topic of your post, was a bland and generalized statement covering a wide range of crap you could have spewed in that whirlwind of clusterfuck. Apparently, you are unable to read otherwise you would had noticed me say that in my "paragraph". But I digress, your ignorance is only overshadowed by your arrogance. You come here asking for advice, claiming you can get plenty of dates but they're not good enough for you, then whine because you can't find anybody you like. You, sir, disgust me. You want some real advice? Stop being a douchebag to these girls you're fucking over. You're not even giving them a chance because they're "boring". You want somebody who's like you? Be prepared to see just exactly boring is, that is if you ever find her. Having similar intrests is always a plus, but turning people away simply because they don't like what you like... you're a dick. Do you know how many people on here would kill just to have that kind of opportunity, to be GIVEN a chance by a girl? Yet you walk in here, unknown to anybody, claiming you can get plenty of dates but they're not good enough, then ask for advice on how to find somebody. On behalf of everybody who will think it, but not say anything, fuck you. Figure out your own damn problem. Now how's that for your proper paragraph?