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once a cheat, always a cheat.

nestlepanic
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You may say you regret it, and won't do it again, saying that you hate it more than we do. But, what makes you think that the impulse you had to cheat on your girlfriend, won't happen again? It is a feeling, the emotions run the mind, the logic will barely ever reach it in time. Being cheated on sucks, it hurts, and I never want to feel that feeling again. It has been two weeks since I've been cheated on, and the hurt doesn't seem to go away faster than I'd like it too. But, that isn't the point. Don't cheat, it isn't worth it.. Yeah, it may hurt you in the end with guilt, but it makes the victim of your actions completely miserable. Be considerate. Be smart. Don't be an asshole.
xueli
Oct 29, 14 at 11:20pm
I don't think it's so much an impulse but as a kind of symptom of a relationship. I don't think people enter relationships with the intent to cheat, but I think that people, situations, and needs change over time. I don't condone cheating and I'm not saying that the person who was cheated on did anything wrong so to speak, but I think that if the communication in a relationship is so bad that for whatever reason people can't communicate their dissatisfaction, then that relationship is in trouble anyways. It hurts, and I'm sorry for whoever has been cheated on. And I'm in no way condoning cheating, if anything, I advocate being truthful in communicating with your significant other, even if it hurts them. Because cheating on them isn't a solution, but a way to avoid a problem that will inevitably blow up in your face.
lucille
Have never, would never. I have been cheated on before and it really hurt like hell. If your with someone, your with them and thats because you want to be. It's just simple respect and trust with me sort of go hand in hand. I think it's a major aspect of any good relationship.
renard
Nov 02, 14 at 12:14am
I don't understand cheating. I think if you don't love someone anymore, you should just tell them instead of pretending to and then doing stuff behind their back.
liltakame
Cheetahs can't change their spots and neither can cheaters. Cheaters are the one type of people in this world I can't stand.
supergamerotaku
Yeah I don't understand cheating on anyone If you do love someone you would not cheat on someone.
animefangirl89
I honestly don't believe that once a person cheats they will always cheat. To think that way is to say that I don't believe people can change for the better. I honestly believe no matter how far gone a person always has the chance to make it back,make it right again by not choosing to cheat again. Only problem is when you do cheat you hurt the person you were with. Seriously people should have more dignity to just say hey I don't want to be with you anymore instead of hurting the others feelings. Sometimes people are hurt so bad it affects them from letting future people in. I have been cheated on before myself and even though it was very painful I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. I believe in the human hearts ability to change for themselves and to keep someone they care for.
jikokun
You'll cheat again, don't try and lie to yourself.
yunokyum
Cheater is just doing black magic. It is unintentionally comply with the devil. Really. I want someone that knows the pain. And never cheated.
yunokyum
2 Weeks... tears. My serious condolences, Captain Seki. Be sure to get some hugs with someone you trust. Being cheated is worse or like to loose someone dearly.
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