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What do you do when multiple people like you?

kc_watz
Liking some one in THAT way and being pushed into the friend zone hurts the other person inside. I think its better for both sides to break it off cleanly. But thats just my opinion
yunoxyukki
you have a point there kc
metalshadown64
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metaljester
What you do is go for the one that seems more connected to you. How you define that connection is clearly up to you, be it their dedication to pursue you or their individuality, or perhaps their difference. All in all go where your mind wants you to. Break it gently to the people who did not catch your eye, if you feel like it. There should be no guilt in such a thing as this. People are bound to pursue interest and there are bound to be people looking at the same interest. There will most likely be some distance and emotional pings but its better then holding off on somebody and keeping it all standstill in the interest.
yunoxyukki
i'll say it again yu is pretty smart...listen to this guy ^
ritsuioko23
Thanks for the advice Yu. I'll take it to heart.
xueli
If you're not interested, turn them down. Like it sucks cause they'll get their feelings hurt, but at the same time, you don't want to have this drag out. It's hard but it's the best and most effiective way to get that cleared up
rainx
Pick the person you like and let the others know you're flattered but you like someone else. Frankly, most guys would love to have your problem. :p I rarely if even have.
vanilla
Oh, dude. Just try turning the ones you don't like in a nice way, "I already like someone, I'm sorry." would be the best I think? And pursue the one you want like you are doing right now.
xkamina
Two words Love Triangle.
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