Women, what are you looking for here?

I wouldn't agree with that. Lucille I has been the only girl to comment thusfar, so I'm asking her questions.

Not long enough to be dating anyway and Oreo that is so rude, DMs (Doctor Martins) are size 9 and may well find themselves where they should not XD

Okay like tho??? I know this is a dating site, but let's be real here.. do ANY of us use it for that? The main issue here is all the self-entitled fuccbois who think that girls are obligated to give them the time of day. I don't understand why so many guys talk to us on here with the intention of starting a romantic relationship. Maybe it's just because I operate weirdly on the romantic side of things, but isn't talking to someone and just initiating a friendship at first enough? So what if you don't hit it off and become something beyond platonic? It's not the end of the world. tl;dr I'm sick of people of any gender being pushy and entitled, friendship is rADICAL MAN.

@lucille not today m8 [IMG]http://i59.tinypic.com/11almxl.jpg[/IMG]

Well don't troll me then XD Imouto: I agree, if anything pushiness makes you retreat. You can't have a romance with out a friendship first. It just doesn't work like that.

@lucille Exactly, and most people tend to forget that. A lot of people are in the mindset of, "Well, a relationship will magically fix all my problems!" Hey, wow. Hate to break it to you there 'ol buddy. But, if you're not in a sound place with yourself a relationship is only going to make things worse.

@Imouto This is exactly why not jumping into anything straight away is important. Especially after something like 8 years. Being with someone doesn't fix the bad in your life, infact if it's the wrong person it can add to the badd. @Oreo. Still stands and I do have size 9 boots well... they are a US 11 but UK 9 so it still counts.

^ well sometimes when you do that starting a friendship and don't be pushy, a guy can end up in the friendzone @lucille well come all the way over here to texas and prove it, 1v1 me lol jk ily, dont hurt me T.T