Long distance relationship,and no contact

I know what you mean, I've seen it plenty aswell. I said it in a sense meaning a very small chance he isn't screwing with her (even though I believe he is).

Well see his cousin lives with him and leaves for a week usually hence the "you'll see in 6 days" and he gave him a brand new phone I even saw it about a week before everything got weird. He said I took back what was mine...so ya and like i said he's been offline on facebook except for today and logged out didnt even see my messages still. This is just blowing my mind a little

Again. Hes fucking with you, but Im not going to argue with somebody who has tunnel vision on the subject. You asked for advice, yet when I offer it, you get defensive for him and dont see reality. Take it for what its worth. Stay, leave, either way its a lesson learned.

If youre looking for somebody to comfort you and tell you he's a great guy and he's being true and sugar coating everything, im not your guy. Given everything you said, its clear he is unfaithful. Now the balls in your court...

Everybody has put their opinions like wait it out or leave asap,not defending I was saying its weird how he was online out of no where..he would talk to me so something is wrong,and I hope that actually was his cousin but seems kinda..fishy

If you want this written out bluntly, showing logic, reason, and unbiased as to why I can almost guarantee you he is, fine. Ill do that. Otherwise, save me the time and effort and look at all the facts. Has he been acting different pre-not talking, has he been talking less beforehand, is his attention span longer than a goldfish, can you guys hold a conversation for longer than 15 minutes before becomes awkward.. I don knkw what else off the top of my head, but just use your brain and look at everything. If you can honestly say afterwards that you feel that he is being faithful and hasn't been acting strange, fine. If not, leave him. (These were all hypothetical questions, dont answer them here, just ask yourself them.)

Well he never acted differently everything was fine,how could he just do this after promising me we would have a skype date the next day I do not understand how he switched overnight

I cannot answer that without being you and knowing him. Just think about everything, thats really the best you can do at this very moment. Think about what everyone has said here, who dont know you or him, by the way, and gave impartial views on the matter. Take it all in over night, let it sink in. Come back tomorrow with what you thought and we will discuss it further. If we continue this now, we will just go in circles. And im not up for that.

ugh so sorry to hear that.....and what you did wasn't creepy at all if you didn't do it then you wouldn't have found this out coming from a third party who knows only what you wrote? I think its not ment to be.... (I understand your feelings, iv found out my long distance other was cheating on me before....a lot...)

I think you should try to seriously have a talk with him about the direction this relationship is going for the both of you. Just a calm discussion about it where you tell him how his recent actions are making you worried and if there's any merit in what you're feeling, then he should let you know and you guys and see if the relationship is going in the same direction that both of you guys are happy with. Ultimately though, if you're not feeling that he's being truthful and he's not changing his story then maybe you guys would be better apart. There's just no point in a relationship if you're gonna drive yourself crazy with distrust you know? Hope it works out for you!