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ekkuzakku
Hello again everyone! I'm making another post because I haven't had much going on with this site lately, I figured I'd start trying to talk to more people here rather than sit around doing nothing. 25, Male, 5'10", TX. I have enough experience to know what I'm looking for in a relationship, but I'm not planning on rushing into anything because of that, so I'm really just looking to meet people, make friends, etc. right now. I'm cool with long distance as well, travelling isn't a big deal for me. Outside of anime, I play a lot of video games (and also develop my own), and listen almost exclusively to J-rock. I enjoy dressing up in EGA (Elegant Gothic Aristocrat) styles, so I tend to spend a lot of time around the Lolita crowd both inside and outside of conventions. It'd be awesome to meet somebody who also enjoys dressing up in fancy clothing. I think I'll stop there for now, but feel free to add me as a friend on here and I'd be happy to get a conversation going~
jlreid28
Well I don't know how many girls would respond to this, but I am looking for a relationship. Here's my full bio below: Name: Justin Lynn Reid Age: 25 Height: 5'11 From: Winter Park, Florida, raised in Lincolnton North Carolina Currently Living: Asheville, NC Occupation: Atmospheric Scientist (meteorologist) and Software Engineer. I am currently a federal government contractor working at the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Adminstration for a major data engineering project regarding climate change. I am also planning to transition to the field of Data Science in the next several years Favorite Animes: Tenchi Universe, Dragonball Z, Sakura Wars. I actually haven't watched much anime in a while due to career and life transitions but I hope this will change soon! As far as relationship experience, all I can say is that I am really a rookie. I have never been in a serious relationship, however I have seen enough (and failed enough) for me to have an idea what I think an ideal relationship is. For me the best aspects that I want to see in a girl is kindness, compassion, self-awareness, and a general accepting and non-judgmental attitude. I've known too many people in my life who are only around when they want something out of you, or think they can move up life's ladder (whatever that means) via riding your coattails. Now that I am at this stage in life I have come too far to deal with drama or toxicity, and I am not afraid to stand up for myself or call things off once things go south. Now for the positives. For me personally I have always been *very* attracted to otaku girls. It's been that way ever since college and it's for a very simple reason. When I am around Japanese culture in general I feel a sense of acceptance that I don't feel anywhere else in my social life. I feel free from having to prove myself constantly just to have friends or to have some form of fulfillment. I can just be myself and no matter my mistakes and failings, I know that there will be friends and love and no more abandonment. It's why that despite having negative experiences with the anime community in the past, I am still attached to otaku and geek culture in general. The messages of emotional freedom, free will, and compassion will always resonate with me; no matter where it comes from. It's why probably one of my greatest fantasies is just falling asleep with my girlfriend in my arms after watching either an anime episode or a show like Steven Universe. In times like that I would know that our relationship would be right and it would be defined by love, creativity, and mutual fulfillment of purpose. Other than my career, relationship goals, and anime I do like to do a couple of other things. I like to write poetry for fun on my spare time and my genres usually range from romantic to life experiences. I also do a lot of weather and nature photography, though I haven't picked up my camera in a while; but I plan to do so again soon. I have captured photos of everything from Sakura (I am part Otaku of course ;)) to severe weather, lightning, and thunderstorms. Well this is a good summary of who I am for now :)
deathfearsme88
check my profile for stuff I like but I am 27 and live in Maryland. Interest in females. Any questions do not be afraid to message me.
pjsante3994
Hey, trying to find someone is the main reason I joined this site. I live in southwest Pennsylvania. Love weeb games and anime and stuff of course. I work a lot and just got out of a 7 year relationship, and I really miss the companionship. Would love to find someone who has similar interests.
napalmamaterasu
*Throws myself into this fray* I'm not going to write a whole lot here since you can go to my profile and see more (not that I particularly go on and on in my profile either). As far as relationships go at first distance isn't much of an inhibitor for me but naturally distance only works for so long before someone would have to make the move. I'm just plain boring ol' straight so only looking for women. My biggest "selling" points: Loyalty - If I'm with (or trying to be with) someone I'm all in 100% Availability - If I'm yours I'm there all the time - I'd think nothing of setting aside hours a day for you Honesty - I'm pretty far on the blunt side of things - usually not much mystery as to what I'm thinking (for better or worse)
sanjayc
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ukhtFMpzZM4
ai_astin
Real Name: Ethan James Age: 18 Location: Pencoed, Wales. United Kingdom Eye Colour: Blue-Grey Occupation: Student, I've just finished my first year of university on a BSc (Hons) course in Popular Music Technology. Info about me: I'm really shy in real life so I've never had the courage to ask a girl anything (which means I've never had relationship experience)..so If I don't respond to you.. it's not because I don't like you, it's because I'm having difficulty trying to say something (please be patient with me). My positives include: - Listening (Since I have trouble speaking up, I'm often staying quiet so if you need someone to listen, I'm here). - I'm not the kind of person to cheat, more to the opposite, I will commit everything I have to making someone happy.. as long as I can see a smile, it will make my life complete. Interests: - Anime, Manga, Light Novels, Visual Novels, Video Games, Conventions, Music, Drawing / Art, Japan, Movies (I'm open to learning about new things everyday, so If you have something you like, feel free to share it, I might like it too) :) Misc: - I play Piano, Guitar, Bass, Drums & Timpani - I'm a submissive type
zakuariku
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harkon
Hello Folks! I'm die-hard fan of 90's Science Fiction, Anime and Games. I'm Italian but I moved to Brazil when I was 9, so I speak 3 lenguages (Italian, Protuguese and English). I'm graduating at Computer Science and Biology although I already work as a teacher and I intend to be a great researcher in the Biocomputing field. Also I'm a very kind, calm and polyte person. I'm looking for someone that I can be mylsef with, to share the things I love and my heart wherever the person is, becouse I belive that love has no boundaries and true gold is not afraid of the test of fire.
nickloveseverything
Why not give it a shot! My names Nick! I'm 16, I live in the us Im a HUGE fan of Anime, Video games etc Im a major nerd! I also am very fond of music, I hope to make a career of it someday! I guess, in ways of my everyday life, Im a below average student, Im smart but school is hard for me, Luckily because I'm smart I was able to work the system. I also suffer from severe depression and anxiety, guess I kinda want someone to help me to be happy, and to help them to be happy! If you like me, Hit me up! If you cant get me here you can hit me up on Echat! http://www.e-chat.co Under, King Sorrow!
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