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Is weight an issue?

kimik
Nov 06, 15 at 1:34am
I have found myself attracted to all kinds of people, regardless of weight. The major factors they seem to have in common are that they either have a great sense of humour, or they make me feel comfortable when I'm around them. One thing I must point out, is that weight and health don't always correlate. I am 108lbs, which is normal for my height, and people always look surprised when my friend and I hike with them, lol. She's overweight, and she used to get teased for it, but she can do a trail and barely break a sweat. Meanwhile, I feel like I'm dying and she has to take constant stops for my little self to catch up to her. It's actually pretty hilarious to me that people constantly comment on my size, and then are surprised when I turn out to be entirely unfit. I can't even touch my toes sitting down, lol.
favoritedream
Depends on how you see it. I donĀ“t mind a little weight on my partner as long it is not unhealthy. Still I respect the people who work out a lot :]
dunno001
Nov 06, 15 at 11:01pm
I'm definitely not a small person, so it's not really a big factor for me. I guess if you make even me look like a toothpick, though, that might be a bit too big for me...
crimsonsun2xseries
Let me clarify actually. Weight is not an issue per se but I worry about my weight all the time (think I'm too skinny, ugly body), I'm not sure why because of that I feel it necessary to judge someone else's weight, but I do. Not a whole lot but still do. I plainly like a tone body though.
foxicity
Nov 09, 15 at 10:39pm
I'd say weight is an issue, I hate to come off as a asshole but I probably will with this. In my eyes generally very heavy is unattractive, I cant help it and im not gonna force myself, if you have the best personality ever, and your intrested in me, but your fat, I honestly dont know what id do, ive never been in that situation. In my brain, id like to say that id try and find a way to get you to lose some weight but I dont know for sure. heavy girls are a turnoff for me, personality is a huge thing, but in general personality and physical appearence usually influence eachother.
jellz
Nov 10, 15 at 12:34am
Weight isn't an issue, it's more about how you carry yourself. If you walk around everyday like your weight is a problem i'm going to sense it and respond accordingly. I've been with a bigger girl who had confidence and didn't really care and I've been with a girl who was average but felt like she was fat. The bigger girl was way more attractive because of the way she carried herself. It had nothing to do with the weight itself
kawaiicat
weight is certainly an issue, in addition to someone obese being unattractive, it is also very unhealthy and i wouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt have the decency to take care of themselves
yukako
Nov 10, 15 at 10:42am
Weight to me is only a issue if you are obese. If so, I stay away, cuz that's a unhealthy lifestyle.
xypho
Nov 12, 15 at 9:48am
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