Is weight an issue?

In all honesty, I wouldn't necessarily call it an issue but yes, it concerns me if someone is very overweight or very underweight. No one has to have ripped abs and go to the gym everyday or have a perfect hourglass frame but its good to stay with in your normal BMI group.

Big girls=more to love! I've gotten so used to bigger girls, I feel odd being intimate with a skinny girl. Only major pro is positions! I once was with a skinny girl in the shower and lifted her up with her legs over my shoulders...(hint, I wasn't facing away from her like when you normally have someone on your shoulders!)

Lol, I was trying not to be overly descriptive because of the young ones here but Yes. It was alright, I'm 5'10". But for some reason the few skinny girls I've been with all had sexual issues from previously being abused/raped/molested. One girl by her own dad when she was 13, another by friend of her dad's at 7, another from a rape and abuse by a previous bf, another prostituted by her own mom etc. So things are always awkward in one way or another.

^ I ran into one girl who was passed around by her dad to a group of friends :l Fcked up shit. Real nice girl.

Yo man, if you're going to talk about sensitive stuff like that @_@; make a new thread if you want to. As for me and weight. Hell. I'm worried that I might scare some dudes I like away because I always feel I'm a little chubbier than most. I'll admit. I'm a lazy ass and I don't do much exercise since most of my movement is at work (blue collar job, lots of heavy lifting) so my form isn't the most appealing. But I guess in a more positive light, I'm curvy and soft? (Yay, what a way to make a pervert out of me.) Oh right, we are talking about weight, my bad. Weight doesn't exactly mean much since the total amount of weight equates to your -entire- body. Fat, Muscles, water content, organs, and bones. Honestly. a well toned man could be heavier than a chubby guy. So basically it leads to how the person looks on the outside, and you can always guesstimate how heavy or light that person is. My personal preference is slender, defined males. I feel kind of awkward with a guy who's wider than me. '~' Doesn't mean I won't be friends with them. But no weight isn't a big issue, it's how you take care of yourself. You can be tall, skinny, chub chub, teeny, toned, or a ruler, as long you have good hygiene and healthy outlook towards your body.

Yeah that's a whole nother topic entirely. Though VampNeko was trying to make somewhat a connection to it. I think it's just coincidence that most slender girls you met had an unsettling past. If anything, anyone can be subjected to such vile things. Hmmm, when I think "is weight an issue?", are people concerned whether they have a hard time trying to carry their S.O. or something? Like Lover's leap?

Weight shouldn't be an issue unless it's life threatening then you should be more worried about your health I don't care about weight I say all that matters is personality