Girlfriend advice needed.

I was actually a little worried when I read your post cause to me it seemed like "Oh well the only things going for us are when we put our heads together to get things done, and when we have sex." Maybe have a little heart to heart with her. Tell her what you love about her, and maybe encourage her to tell you what she loves about you. You might discover that she really loves more than just the sex. :) As for how you're handling the situation, you do seem like you've been very patient, and the fact that you've reached out for advice tells me that you really care enough to try work it out, which you should. And, it's always good to listen to other viewpoints on a situation. :)

i think this will just lead to an unhealthy relationship, tbh even if you love her now, if this keeps up you will be the one suffering in the end. not worth your time. there are plenty of girls who are self successful and know how to take care of themselves.