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i'm insecure?

itsukiakiba
I've always been i suppose. I don't think I'm interesting or pretty in the least P: but when i meet a really pretty/interesting girl i get really nervous around her. I like girls but they can be scarier than men sometimes you know?? In a yuri relationship i would describe myself as the shy seme xD anyway i just can't bring myself to introduce myself to beautiful/interesting people. Especially women Dx baaaah i mean i would like to be taken seriously but who'd take me serious? I:
nii_chan112
As halfhearted as this will sound, really the best thing you can do is build confidence in yourself. When someone's looking for a seme they're usually looking for a slightly more dominant figure (speaking as somewhat of an uke myself XD), which I suppose means you taking the lead and making the first move when it comes to certain things. I don't know how to remove insecurities, but confidence building should definitely help. You can't really just go to the drugstore and buy a bottle of confidence (although you kind of can, it's called alcohol, but using a crutch like that isn't the healthiest thing to do) but look into it. Do a little research and some introspection. This might help a little ( http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence ), good luck!
dragonrage
Feb 06, 14 at 10:15am
I would have to agree with nii_chan112, but the other aspect, and I don't mean to offend is that you might fear, if they don't like other woman then rumors might fly and that sense of rejection. Its highly understandable with that since society is still slow as all hell to accept it. Confidence Confidence Confidence, looks are not everything I have seen that first hand.
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